Apparently its a thing... in most manga and manhwa trope so ibelieve its in the culture.
it holds true in half of east asia. Japan and Korea has this mindset. Here in Taiwan & China, it's a 50/50 lottery.
Some friends over tell me all sorts of horror stories in there like how most of the men see cheating as a normal thing and how they see romance and sex as a completely different thing...
like for context, an ex of a friend had her as a gf but would go to bars (there's a specific term for it but i forgot) while OPENLY telling others he has a gf but "she's boring". She found out from a friend who went into the same bar.
another told me that his man straight up said to her face that "i love you but you are not enough sexually" (and get this: they're still together)
the way IVE heard of the same damn thing around 4-5 times now is INSANE. I haven't heard these from my irls here in tw, but I have heard a similar one from a cousin which is FUCKING NUTS
anyway thats tea spilled today
mehhh "if you dont have sex with him he will cheat" ???? does man see women like this irl...? bcs i saw lots of man like this and even in fiction its like this. woman is not sex object