Truly I’d even be a bit turned off like what do mean is there something I should know are you dirty or just misogynisticly vanilla
i think its more about the boundary he's trying to keep up with hyunho
misogynistically vanilla??? what???
Lmaooo I learned it from a human sexuality class most are men inherently selfish sexual creatures they only do what feels good for them and Men don’t usually want to kiss their partner after head because they look down on the act and think it’s dirty or it would be gay but they only think that way bc of male perception/ societal standards these are almost the same type of men who want to revive head but won’t give it again because the emasculating feeling they have a superiority complex about being the man and feel entitled to their pleasure
And I think it’s v Vanilla because we could swap saliva and other fluids we could touch each other everywhere but you don’t want to kiss me after head it’s very weird and overly vanilla like kissing very bare minimum
I actually thought he was a real one for that i wouldnt want my semen in my mouth either
I think it’s a power flex more than a boundary bc it doesn’t really give I’m uncomfortable and won’t do it instead gives I’m in charge I want to control flex my authority bc ik I’m at a advantage
a boundary is also just a notice of "im not doing this" , and this isn't even the original language so making any defensive argument about it in an english translation is in vain from my side tbh
i do understand the scenario you're talking about btw, definitely makes sense for it be like that too
I don't wanna kiss someone who swallowed my semen?? that's how I'd know someone was boring.