Okay, rereading this with a calmer mind ( I got triggered at that first sentence ngl) I would say her course of action is indeed understandable, everyone reacts differently, but this situation is like watching someone in an abusive relationship stay cause she has « no where to go » as if they actually had any control over where they were. It’s frustrating, annoying even cause she’s one of those that don’t wanna be saved, even when you give them a hand. That’s living in fear, and that’s on me for hating her for not getting up, to either leave them all behind or fight because she indeed wanna stay with her husband. I just can’t with this type of person, you know how to deal with it, I don’t. I get frustrated then I hate them for not moving cause I did move.
So you'd tell anyone to just hang themselves and be done with it if they can't fight back no matter what? As you stated in your first comment. Your words, not mine.
It's astonishing how dismissive and simplistic your comment comes across, as if you have no grasp of the profound impact trauma can have on an individual. Suggesting that the female lead should simply "ask for help" displays a staggering level of ignorance. It's as if you're oblivious to the fact that she has endured a harrowing past, marked by betrayal and abuse from those closest to her. How can you reasonably expect someone who has been physically, emotionally, and mentally scarred by her own family to place her trust in anyone so easily?
Throughout the story, we repeatedly witness the depth of her trauma through flashbacks—clear indicators of the long-lasting effects of her past. Yes, the male lead is trustworthy and genuinely loves her, but you can't just overlook the complexities of her experience. Healing from such profound wounds isn't a linear process; it requires time, patience, and an understanding of the deep-seated fears that come with her history.
What I appreciate most about this manhwa is how authentically the female character's journey is portrayed. Her behavior isn't just realistic; it's a reflection of how people who have endured similar traumas actually navigate their lives. It's easy to say, "Just ask for help," but in reality, it's far more complicated than that. Healing is a gradual process, one that demands empathy and respect for the scars that remain.
thank you for your comment…it honestly gave me comfort after reading such harsh takes on Ruby. I get that people are entitled to their opinions, but some of them come off as incredibly insensitive, especially considering how deeply traumatized Ruby is. You explained it so well on how her silence, fear, and hesitation aren’t just ‘weakness’ or ‘pity-party behavior,’ but a reflection of real psychological scars from years of emotional and physical abuse. I mean c’mon healing doesn’t follow logic or bold choices like it follows fear, survival instincts, and self-protection. Ruby’s struggle is what makes her story so painfully real to me, and I’m glad there are readers like you who see that and speak up with compassion
I’m just growing to hate her more and more every passing day, like honestly wake up, this really isn’t about you anymore, people life are on the line cause she’s just acting like a dog laying low, not talking when there’s a man who will kill for her, believe her no matter what she’s saying, just waiting for her to tell the truth and she’ll rather be beaten, made into a doll than fight back, all while wishing to die cause it’s easier. Just hang yourself and be done with it if that’s what you wish or fight for the things you think are worth it. Honestly that brother of hers I don’t even know if killing get will satiate me cause I hate him with a passion. And seing her act like this just makes me wonder if it’s just not better for her to just die and let the others worth it out after. Arghh this is one doormat frustrating fl