Can’t forgive both Eunhyeok and Dohwa.

The only person I feel bad for in this story is Su-ae. Not only did Eunhyeok abandon her and ghost her but contrary to popular opinion I think Dohwa also abandoned her without saying anything. In the case of Eunhyeok, I understand he must have a very good reason for leaving and I know it’s not typical Eunhyeok behaviour but it doesn’t change the fact that he left her without saying anything. He ghosted her for a literal decade. She literally waited for him for so many years but when it finally crossed the threshold she gave up. He didn’t explain anything to her at any given point in the last 10 years. Even if he couldn’t or wouldn’t explain anything to her, the least he could do was have the courtesy to text her he’s leaving or that he’s breaking up with her. He could even just send an anonymous letter at any time during the last 10 years and simply only say I’m sorry but he didn’t even do that. He did nothing. He completely and utterly abandoned her despite knowing how much she loved him. Do you even understand what that can do to a person? It breaks a person completely. It makes them lose all confidence, all hope. It fills them with hatred and resentment. It makes them think they won’t ever get anything because they don’t deserve anything . It pollutes every good and loving memory you both once shared together. Seeing grown Su-ae that is indeed the case. In the case of Dohwa, I know he loved Su-ae a lot . I know he was heartbroken and hurting because Su-ae didn’t return his love but was that all she was to him? A love interest? If that love isn’t reciprocated does that mean you just up and leave without saying anything to that very love interest? Wasn’t she his friend before he started loving her? Wasn’t she always there for him whenever he needed her? Wasn’t she willing to do anything for Dohwa? Is that what she deserved from someone she considered her friend? It’s within Dohwa’s right to leave if he’s hurting too much. It’s also within Dohwa’s right to never talk to Su-ae again if he doesn’t want to but it’s also within Su-ae’s right to be hurt by her friend who abandoned her without saying anything. She deserved the courtesy to be told he’s leaving . She may have not loved Dohwa romantically but she did love Dohwa as a friend. Dohwa knew that. She never knowingly hurt him. She always tried to protect him. Even after knowing Dohwa’s feelings she never tried to deceive him and give him false hope. She would’ve tried to make things right with him if he stayed or at least told her he was leaving but he didn’t. He choose to be selfish and tend to his broken heart only. He reduced Su-ae to being his love interest only and forgot that she was his friend first and love interest later. He forgot that his friend could have her heart broken by him too. That’s what common between Eunhyeok and Dohwa. They both abandoned her while only thinking about their situation and their own broken heart. They forgot about Su-ae and her broken heart. If they both couldn’t stay the least they could do was have the minimum amount of courtesy and respect for her and tell her they were leaving. Both didn’t do that. Both never once contacted her in 10 years. She loved them both in her own way. They both betrayed her trust and love. Su-ae is always getting betrayed by people she loves and trusts most like her ex-boyfriend, her step/foster sister Raim, Eunhyeok and Dohwa. Eunhyeok and Dohwa both made her lose faith in ever being loved. She stayed single for 10 whole years because of the damage they both did to her. It doesn’t matter whose better now between Eunhyeok and Dohwa because they both hurt her deeply in different ways. She deserves better. She deserves to be loved and respected. She deserves to be happy.