I'm just trying to tell you why people had an issue with your original comment (including me), haha. And sometimes criticism is deserved in BL.
Well, originally in Japan yaoi was used to describe porn without plot in doujinshis (yaoi literally means "no meaning"). The western world picked it up to describe explicit BL manga, even though it wasn't really correct it stuck, it's kinda used as an umbrella term at this point. I don't really care if people use the word, since the meaning in the west is different. But in the west, BL would include BOTH shounen ai and yaoi, we just use the words to differentiate if it has smut or not. But once again, smut doesn't automatically mean it contains rape so haha.
Yeah honestly my standards for healthy sex represented in yaoi is pretty damn low when I go into reading them, so it's not so surprising to see this kind of situation sometimes. But it is disappointing when the ONLY loving relationship that Jooha has been in, results in this kind of thing with Dooshik. The fault does lie with Dooshik because not only is he the one who is topping, therefore he has more control and responsibility to make sure Jooha is feeling safe and comfortable, but he's much bigger and stronger than Jooha. So he has a physical advantage of not letting Jooha get away if he wanted to. It doesn't matter if Jooha was even saying 'Stop' because he was embarrassed, no means no. I just wish they showed Dooshik slow down and ask Jooha what he's feeling and reassure him before resuming. It would've added a lot more romance and trust in this scene.
And I know you're opinion is based on this latest post, so I won't spoil what happens next. But Dooshik absolutely rapes Jooha, no matter how you look at it. So a lot of people's comments are also based on what happens in the next post and are 100% justified to say it's SA
fucking virgins/minors/sensitive bitches gtfo
if you cant tell the difference between Rough Sex and R*pe then just leave.
I'm tired of these new generation readers who just come here to read Yaoi and find which manhwa has the worst Red Flag, which manga has the most SA. That's all that you ever talk about please for the love of GOD stfu.
Yaoi has always been based of alot of Dramas and extreme story plots, so alot of times these sensitive topics will arise. And there are alot of Fluffy Cutesy ones for you soft asses, so read those instead.
If you feel uncomfortable just leave, we don't wanna read these boring ass opinions cuz it's getting real consistent like make up another excuse already, you're obviously showing your age and you shouldnt be reading this anyways.
ive been reading Yaoi for over 2 decades and i love engaging in comments talking about the story but recently im always finding these weak ass comments.
lmao bye