is this borderline toxic yaoi or is this toxic yaoi i cant tell. it definitely feels toxic...

hachi leaf September 12, 2024 6:10 pm

is this borderline toxic yaoi or is this toxic yaoi i cant tell. it definitely feels toxic but it still feels hopeful of you get what i mean (im probably not making sense)

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    Turnip September 12, 2024 6:36 pm

    I'm also not sure lol
    But it feels like the situation itself is intense but there's still some level of communication and vulnerability happening maybe ? But it is still stunted by the situation but in kind of a reasonable way imo
    So the tense atmosphere isn't coming solely from a characters' toxic behavior like it does in a lot of typical yaoi
    So yeah, I don't actually know but either way it's well written and engaging, so I'm definitely invested in the couple and hoping they come out healthy

    bi-lateral_general September 12, 2024 9:57 pm

    It is absolutely toxic. Toxic relationships do not completely lack any and all communication. In fact, many toxic relationship have a ton of communication, but one or both parties will try to dominate and steer said conversation into their own point of view. The allusions the author makes to domestic violence aren’t done accidentally.

    hachi leaf September 12, 2024 11:43 pm
    I'm also not sure lolBut it feels like the situation itself is intense but there's still some level of communication and vulnerability happening maybe ? But it is still stunted by the situation but in kind of a... Turnip

    you explain it so well! that's exactly it! there's vulnerability and communication so it doesn't feel as toxic but still toxic. doesn't make it a bad read though

    hachi leaf September 12, 2024 11:43 pm
    It is absolutely toxic. Toxic relationships do not completely lack any and all communication. In fact, many toxic relationship have a ton of communication, but one or both parties will try to dominate and steer... bi-lateral_general

    yeah definitely

    Turnip September 14, 2024 4:09 pm
    It is absolutely toxic. Toxic relationships do not completely lack any and all communication. In fact, many toxic relationship have a ton of communication, but one or both parties will try to dominate and steer... bi-lateral_general

    You're definitely right