I hate this assface talking about how women are like wilting flowers so much, and I hate i...

Hunni, don't worry. Rest in the solace that men are nowhere near as, and equally way picky(ier) than this douchenozzle said. So many men want to be the ones “hunted” and even more full on cashed and kept. On top of that many men who think with their dicks don't care who not what they put them in, so the “wilting flower” thing is way outmatched by every other kink in the world. Although that sadly means there are even worse, the majority are much better. If only the actual losers, like this guy, who don't want an independent woman...

Hell, the biggest asshole I ever dated got me pregnant and after giving birth to my now 15 year old baby, he even threatened to leave me because he missed his “independent girl”. He was an abusive alcoholic and even he didn't want that.

So have some faith in our men, but do keep your eyes open for those monsters in puppy clothing.

Are you still with that man?

That really helped - thank you! I was also in a relationship with an huge bag of dicks like that, who threatened to leave me so many times it lost all meaning. One day I was sick of it, and told him that I was leaving HIM - best and most empowering day of my life!

GOD NO! The yelling is because I am proud of literally fleeing from him, I'm not telling at you .

It was the literal “with nothing but my baby and the clothes on our backs” situation. It got really bad (he came home one of the days, from the bar while I disabled, caring for my infant the entire day while he worked, every day just to go out drinking every night, to get a knife and go back out. He came back hours later saying he thought he had stabbed someone) so I left the next week after getting everything set up, while he was at work. I fought him for custody for a year, going to court a month after I left, but had gotten a restraining order in the meanwhile. He literally said to his friends, about the literal mother of -his- my child that I should “burn like the Jew [she] I [is] am.” That excuse for a human never saw my face again, the day after my final court date. I got everything besides supervised visitation at his parents (whom I trust) house. He sees my kid up to two times a year, but usually it's 0. I'm with an absolutely amazing man who was one of my absolute best friends before I ever met that douchebag ex. We liked one another before I met him but things didn't align until after. We told eachother we loved the other literally the day after I left my ex. Technically we said we had something to tell the other the day after, but it turned out we both wanted to say it. I never cheated.

Sorry for the novel. Thanks for being worried about me.

I know RIGHT!?!? In case you don't read my reply to the other comment, I did the whole ” nothing but my baby and the clothes on our backs” thing. I got to pick some of my stuff up later, but I lost a lot that day. I gained my freedom and my child's future though so yeah absolutely worth it!

Same here! SO WORTH IT!!

Thank you for the detailed response. I’m happy and relieved for you (づ￣ ³￣)づ

See thank you for everything.