Their relationship is about accountability. This all started because Leo does not think he is responsible for the break up, claims he doesn't know anything and has done nothing wrong. It was claimed that in the 5 year relationship, JJ did not make any effort and did not communicate. Purposely hurt innocent Leo for petty reasons.
But as flashbacks are uncovered, JJ did make efforts and Leo on multiple accounts dismissed JJ. If we tally them up during the relationship, JJ was indeed innocent. That was the whole point in the comment wars, was Leo really broken off without faults?
When the garage scene happened, anyone who said JJ did the right thing was wrong. It was never right. And JJ recognized it. He apologized because he acknowledged it without second guessing. The ONE grand time he fucked up, he owned up to it as soon as Leo was willing to listen. And if you think it's gross then fine, but Leo who could've taken that more seriously because not only was it wrong but it was all of JJ's frustration never recognized was somewhat chucked down the drain. Like it was all for nothing. Idk if I relayed it well but essentially Leo is dismissing it, the problem is with Leo. So no, my intention was not to minimize even if you insist that I am. I am making tallies and even what JJ did was more grave than Leo's multiple fuck ups, JJ owned up to it in the same level of what he did, Leo albeit already apologized still taking things lightly.
yes leo was an annoying and inconsiderate boyfriend, but JJ borderline raped him in a garage. somehow yall have assessed these two situations and decided to start acting like leo is the spawn of satan. let’s put our thinking caps on now! for some reason a whole lot of yall have either gotten collective amnesia from the garage incident or are too yaoi brainrotted to realize that it was fucked up. also, did JJ ever sit leo down in a serious conversation to communicate why his behaviour upset him? i don’t think so. if leo had no idea that his behaviour was upsetting JJ then what do yall expect him to do. the way yall are whining like leo being immature and oblivious makes him lucifer’s hellspawn and JJ is a poor helpless victim is actually crazy. especially when JJ has been far from perfect himself.