Ummm... You deserved it babe. Sorry.

What did he do to deserve it ??

1- He took advantage of a drunk person
2- He approached a virgin man with ulterior motives to fix his erectile dysfunction
3- He implied that he was a virgin too
4- Hid his past
5- Didn't communicate and made his partner anxious
6- When his partner said he wanted to talk, he said "let's take a break", making his partner more anxious

I'm not saying he should be severely punished, but he deserves to be dumped even if it's temporary.
He had every opportunity to come clean, but he didn't.