Aww i totaly agree! And you sound so kind and understanding btw, not many ppl understand what its like to be traumatised
I understand what you're saying, but to be fair, jeahyuk 'redemption ark' started a while b4 they started dating. He wanted to change for garam and make the effort to do so. I'm not trying to invalidate garams feelings in any way, I totally understand that it might be dificult for him to express his feeling or to completely trust someone. But I do think it's worth mentioning that jeahyuk has been giving a lot for their relationship since he realized his feelings.
Just to be clear, I'm not trying to argue which side should be supportet and which side deserves not to be supportet. I just think that they both deserve some recognition/respect in that matter and that we shouldn' completely put all the fault on just one person.
I hope what I said made sence, sorry if not.
The fact that Garam is aware he needs to change and thinks about how he's doing exactly what his ex did to him shows the author has a better brain than you thankfully. So tired of complete morons who don't understand that just because one character needs to work on themselves, the other is a saint.
NOT a saint* lol they both need work
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Honestly, the people in the comments tell me y’all are inexperienced in relationships ‘cause wth is this one-sided consideration for jaehyuk? The mf needs to be humbled more what’s wrong with y’all? His entire relationship with Garam IS SHORT. The time that they had together is not enough to build trust and assurance. Not to mention, almost 80% of the time they had together he’s been an asshole? He’s only nice until just recently and y’all praise him? The bar is in hell I tell you. They’re just starting and he’s already this impatient and frustrated? Where’s his patience? Although Garam has his issues that he needs fixing, THAT TAKES TIME, IT’S NOT INSTANT! He was reluctant to get into a relationship in the first place but he decided to give it a chance and y’all want to force him to be baggage-free already. Him showing hesitancy, which understandable, normal, and VALID, given his past and jae’s history, SHOULD BE EXPECTED AND TREATED WITH CARE AND PATIENCE. But no, most of y’all decided to ignore that and praise the top for just being a decent person instead of his usual asshole self