okay im ngl, I'm disliking the fact that a lot of people are immediately onboard to unders...

hachi leaf November 17, 2024 5:28 pm

okay im ngl, I'm disliking the fact that a lot of people are immediately onboard to understand garam's insecurity but not jaehyuk smh. like I understand where both are coming from but some people are brushing over the fact that jaehyuk was literally insecure because garam never outright said he likes him before this? guy out here literally couldn't get it up for anyone else, always openly expressed his feelings, and now I fucking realize how the receiving end must have never looked past themselves to never take notice of that and it's fucking sad. I didn't wanna say this but with how people are reacting, it wasn't jaehyuk who refused to talk. man, fuck this hypocrisy.

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    desid November 17, 2024 5:54 pm

    people can hold both opinions

    jh's current actions doesn't erase his past, we as readers have the advantage of knowing context, each side, and most of their inner thoughts

    jh didn't always express his emotions, he did petty shit while he was discovering and accepting his identity, doing a 180 because of the power of love, while cute and funny, makes it weird for garam to just jump into his arms and be open with everything

    we all (or at the very least, the most of us) love this reformed fuckboy and want to see their relationship play out as the story develops

    dontlookmeup03 November 17, 2024 6:02 pm

    God this is so fucking true man. It kinda makes me realize how common the insecure uke can be because of how many people instantly sympathize with the uke, and come to antagonize the seme. It's like jaehyuk isn't allowed to feel like shit and do things like walk out bc he's popular and outgoing or smt, he just wanna hear a few words :')

    Rin November 17, 2024 7:28 pm
    God this is so fucking true man. It kinda makes me realize how common the insecure uke can be because of how many people instantly sympathize with the uke, and come to antagonize the seme. It's like jaehyuk isn... dontlookmeup03

    Exactly, his emotions should be given equal priority too.

    Rin November 17, 2024 7:30 pm

    Mc privilege hah

    hachi leaf November 17, 2024 11:09 pm
    people can hold both opinionsjh's current actions doesn't erase his past, we as readers have the advantage of knowing context, each side, and most of their inner thoughtsjh didn't always express his emotions, h... desid

    well, that's what I'm saying? I understand both but the readers seem to brush it off so fast for jaehyuk

    hachi leaf November 17, 2024 11:11 pm
    God this is so fucking true man. It kinda makes me realize how common the insecure uke can be because of how many people instantly sympathize with the uke, and come to antagonize the seme. It's like jaehyuk isn... dontlookmeup03

    yeah it's pretty sad :/ how come he's not allowed to be upset and from what I'm getting from the readers is the one obligated to grovel and apologize? it makes no sense to me

    Tweaks November 18, 2024 12:52 am
    God this is so fucking true man. It kinda makes me realize how common the insecure uke can be because of how many people instantly sympathize with the uke, and come to antagonize the seme. It's like jaehyuk isn... dontlookmeup03

    Idk maybe bcs he use to be homophonic as hell to his now current bf …

    dontlookmeup03 November 18, 2024 1:54 am
    Idk maybe bcs he use to be homophonic as hell to his now current bf … Tweaks

    Everyone deserves sympathy. I know these are fictional characters, but by wanting to support jaehyuk doesn't automatically mean I, and others, don't support garam
    A comment like this kind of sounds like we should all hate his guts and that garam should gtfo or smt, very generalized unfort

    hachi leaf November 18, 2024 4:31 am
    Idk maybe bcs he use to be homophonic as hell to his now current bf … Tweaks

    but the source of insecurity isn't even that even garam himself isn't holding grudges for that but he's insecure because of the fact that jaehyuk was a playboy. that's a stupid point to bring up cause even the character involved never took that in mind