(My english is not quite good) Okay there's something I need to get off my Chest, to start...

Roxanna December 4, 2024 5:03 pm

(My english is not quite good) Okay there's something I need to get off my Chest, to start off, I'm an Asian girl who live in an Asian country so I don't know Western countries Rules and Laws are but I've been thinking, does Western People don't like Age Gap relationships, especially in Fictions? When I was scrolling through Tiktok, there's a Video of a GoYuu anime Ship from Jujutsu Kaisen and when I tried reading the comments, they're a lot of People hating it like they're cursing at it and even went as far as harassing others who liked the Ship, straight up calling them Pedophiles, when asked why, they said Yuuji is a Minor and Gojo is an adult and when some say it's just Fictions, they still won't back off and went on mocking them, I was surprised that they'd be so sensitive even in Fiction since then, I've been wondering about that, so tell me does Western People Hate Age Gap relationships to the point they don't even like it in Fictions? (Mind you, my country is like, if it's Fictional Drawings, don't care about it and I also have a Neighbour couple who have 15 years Age gap)

Responses
    Roxanna December 4, 2024 5:57 pm
    no biggie! ᕦʕ •ᴥ•ʔᕤ STEWIE

    Ah one more question, is Proshipping bad?

    Roxanna December 4, 2024 6:03 pm
    Ah one more question, is Proshipping bad? Roxanna

    Like is it fine as long as you don't react to them nor do that in real life?

    STEWIE December 4, 2024 6:04 pm
    Ah one more question, is Proshipping bad? Roxanna

    In my opinion, it would be bad if they're promoting and romanticize it.

    STEWIE December 4, 2024 6:05 pm
    In my opinion, it would be bad if they're promoting and romanticize it. STEWIE

    it would be so insane seeing someone you know promoting and romanticizing ped0phil!a (‘◉⌓◉’)

    STEWIE December 4, 2024 6:06 pm
    Thank You so much for your Explanation, Sis! Little similar to my country but Thank you for that Roxanna

    No problem!!

    Roxanna December 4, 2024 6:15 pm
    it would be so insane seeing someone you know promoting and romanticizing ped0phil!a (‘◉⌓◉’) STEWIE

    It's just that my friends and me reads a lot of BLs (rarely) including age gap romance novel and manhwas too as we find the drawings and their Romance cute and all but what should I say, it's hard to explain but we never do those things in really life but only Fangirl over the drawings

    STEWIE December 4, 2024 6:17 pm
    It's just that my friends and me reads a lot of BLs (rarely) including age gap romance novel and manhwas too as we find the drawings and their Romance cute and all but what should I say, it's hard to explain bu... Roxanna

    ig it's fine, still if you feel like you sense something weird, you can touch some grass. lol ( ꈍᴗꈍ)

    Roxanna December 4, 2024 6:23 pm
    ig it's fine, still if you feel like you sense something weird, you can touch some grass. lol ( ꈍᴗꈍ) STEWIE

    Oh my dad used to tell me that, like go outside cause I'm always in my room with my phone just reading manhwas and novels doing nothing

    Sadyuri enjoyer December 4, 2024 6:58 pm
    Ah one more question, is Proshipping bad? Roxanna

    It is, because it can affect your way of thinking. There was a lot of cases where people did atrocious things to their sibling because they were into “incest”. Would you rather take the risk of “its just fiction” with the possibility of having it affect their mindset? Can you really trust a lolicon because its not “real” and possibly actually becoming a pedophile? Because trust me its more common than you think.

    Roxanna December 4, 2024 7:01 pm
    It is, because it can affect your way of thinking. There was a lot of cases where people did atrocious things to their sibling because they were into “incest”. Would you rather take the risk of “its just ... Sadyuri enjoyer

    What country is it?

    paulintka December 4, 2024 7:09 pm

    Hi, Central Europe here and I would agree with STEWIE and Mbaremark. Age gap is fine as long as both are adults, so generally 18+. Below 18 for me it depends... If the minor is a high schooler, then it's fine as long as the age gap is small, so up to 5y diff preferable, ~10y max and of course no sex until the minor turns adult. If the minor is even younger, then for me (36yo) it's a child and I don't feel comfortable reading a work romanticizing children, feels gross.

    I love age gap where both are adults, even if the diff is big, so things like:
    https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/ren_ai_nenrei/
    https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/koi_ga_ochitara/
    https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/sesame_salt_and_pudding/

    LGtfo December 4, 2024 7:09 pm

    Wouldn’t ask that here. Too many antis

    Roxanna December 4, 2024 7:13 pm
    Hi, Central Europe here and I would agree with STEWIE and Mbaremark. Age gap is fine as long as both are adults, so generally 18+. Below 18 for me it depends... If the minor is a high schooler, then it's fine a... paulintka

    Wow I haven't read them yet, but Thanks for recommending them, now I have some new BLs to read and it's a Manga instead of Manhwa

    LGtfo December 4, 2024 7:13 pm
    Like is it fine as long as you don't react to them nor do that in real life? Roxanna

    Pretty much imo

    paulintka December 4, 2024 7:18 pm
    Wow I haven't read them yet, but Thanks for recommending them, now I have some new BLs to read and it's a Manga instead of Manhwa Roxanna

    the last one is straight but it's fun to read ^^ and if you like the first one, then that author has a thing for older guys and she wrote a ton of other manga ლ(´ڡ`ლ)

    Roxanna December 4, 2024 7:19 pm
    the last one is straight but it's fun to read ^^ and if you like the first one, then that author has a thing for older guys and she wrote a ton of other manga ლ(´ڡ`ლ) paulintka

    Thanks for that

    Sadyuri enjoyer December 4, 2024 8:46 pm
    What country is it? Roxanna

    Wdym what country

    getussy December 4, 2024 9:57 pm

    i'm from portugal so, south west europe and here generally if you're 17 it's fine to date someone older, but id day maybe 2-3 years max! once you're 18, age gaps are fine, unless they're really excessive right, because it's not like you suddenly become an adult just because you turn 18.

    in general, people have a problem with that ship because yuuji is like 16 and gojo is 29, that's a 13 year old age gap. besides, yuuji is a minor and he's gojo's student

    Roxanna December 5, 2024 3:37 am
    i'm from portugal so, south west europe and here generally if you're 17 it's fine to date someone older, but id day maybe 2-3 years max! once you're 18, age gaps are fine, unless they're really excessive right,... getussy

    I guess we're living in different worlds after all

    getussy December 5, 2024 9:58 am
    Thank You so much for your Explanation, Sis! Little similar to my country but Thank you for that Roxanna

    no problem! :)