i like the concept, but again, i get it that he's nervous about getting "outed" as a crossdresser to normies, but crossplay is like a huge part of fandom and cossplay culture. i think the majority of cossplayers at least crossdressed once and many do mainly crossplays, so i don't get why he'd be nervous to 1. post it on online fandom spaces 2. talk about and show it to ppl tgat are in the fandoms and into cossplay.
like it's this overdone concept of inexistant self-esteem and fear of judgment so omnipresent that you end up judging other ppl as mean bullies when they never did anything to you.
like if i discovered that a classmate was doing crossplay and we started hanging out and they told me "don't you think it's weird that i crossdress?", I'd lowkey be offended that they'd think I'd be bigoted like that, same with "don't you think I'm weird for liking the same gender", like idk do you think I'm a homophobic bigot? ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ
i like the concept, but again, i get it that he's nervous about getting "outed" as a crossdresser to normies, but crossplay is like a huge part of fandom and cossplay culture. i think the majority of cossplayers at least crossdressed once and many do mainly crossplays, so i don't get why he'd be nervous to 1. post it on online fandom spaces 2. talk about and show it to ppl tgat are in the fandoms and into cossplay.
like it's this overdone concept of inexistant self-esteem and fear of judgment so omnipresent that you end up judging other ppl as mean bullies when they never did anything to you.
like if i discovered that a classmate was doing crossplay and we started hanging out and they told me "don't you think it's weird that i crossdress?", I'd lowkey be offended that they'd think I'd be bigoted like that, same with "don't you think I'm weird for liking the same gender", like idk do you think I'm a homophobic bigot? ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ