I acc feel so bad fot the sunbae 😭😭 it's kinda heartless how they're both treating h...

4ki January 10, 2025 10:28 am

I acc feel so bad fot the sunbae it's kinda heartless how they're both treating him

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    t_tamatem January 10, 2025 10:54 am

    is it though? they literally just started dating they don’t know anything about each other and yet he keep inserting himself everywhere like lighten up

    4ki January 10, 2025 11:22 am
    is it though? they literally just started dating they don’t know anything about each other and yet he keep inserting himself everywhere like lighten up t_tamatem

    I don't think he was inserting himself though... it's normal that you want to date someone when you're... Dating??? Uke is being too vague and should've just say no if he is not feeling the same (and is obv having feelings for another)... But they just keep excusing it as him being not so emotionaly intelligent when he is straight up heartless (and so is seme)

    twinkhunter69 January 10, 2025 12:02 pm
    I don't think he was inserting himself though... it's normal that you want to date someone when you're... Dating??? Uke is being too vague and should've just say no if he is not feeling the same (and is obv hav... 4ki

    Agreed, it's not like the boyfriend has done anything to warrant being treated that way. There aren't any hidden motives on his side as we know of. I just feel kind of bad for him

    t_tamatem January 10, 2025 2:20 pm
    I don't think he was inserting himself though... it's normal that you want to date someone when you're... Dating??? Uke is being too vague and should've just say no if he is not feeling the same (and is obv hav... 4ki

    I think he’s still figuring out how he feels he’s just now realizing he’s attracted to men and is dating the first person who offered he just hasn’t realized his feelings for his friend. You make it sound like he’s intentionally stringing him along but he’s really out here just trying to figure himself out

    t_tamatem January 10, 2025 2:20 pm
    Agreed, it's not like the boyfriend has done anything to warrant being treated that way. There aren't any hidden motives on his side as we know of. I just feel kind of bad for him twinkhunter69

    guys he’s literally known him for a day and he’s being like this if a man acted this way around me I’d be so uncomfortable

    4ki January 10, 2025 2:30 pm
    guys he’s literally known him for a day and he’s being like this if a man acted this way around me I’d be so uncomfortable t_tamatem

    You're totally valid but I think he should have figured that out before entering a relationship...

    4ki January 10, 2025 2:32 pm
    You're totally valid but I think he should have figured that out before entering a relationship... 4ki

    And why would you feel uncomfortable with your BOYFRIEND trying to get close to you... That's normal but you shouldn't be in relationship then

    t_tamatem January 10, 2025 3:16 pm
    And why would you feel uncomfortable with your BOYFRIEND trying to get close to you... That's normal but you shouldn't be in relationship then 4ki

    yall calling them boyfriends when they’ve been dating for one day and yes even if someone is your boyfriend they can still do things that make you uncomfortable

    GentleRain January 10, 2025 5:29 pm
    guys he’s literally known him for a day and he’s being like this if a man acted this way around me I’d be so uncomfortable t_tamatem

    This and honestly i really don’t think iksu should have just said yes to the relationship when it seems his heart isn't really in it.

    Like maybe if they communicated that maybe they can date and he can see if he gains feelings for sunbae, and that they need to take it slow. but although they spend a lot of time together, iksu is quite dismissive of sunbae and from what we are shown with his attitude, he doesnt really seem like he likes being in a relationship

    Might not be the case but just from what weve seen he doesnt seem certain about the relationship and i think its unfair to keep going with it if he doesnt end up feeling anything