I thought I was into bdsm until I realized that choking and slapping the face and no lube ...

chika January 11, 2025 12:18 pm

I thought I was into bdsm until I realized that choking and slapping the face and no lube no protection is also a part of it!!(⊙…⊙ )
Why slap his face cheeks when he's got two plump cheeks down there ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ he too liked spanking more than slapping (〜 ̄▽ ̄)〜

Responses
    Skylar Protector January 11, 2025 12:39 pm

    Okay but even with BDSM, remember that protection is always important!! Proper preparation is also necessary. Actual injuries are different than being smacked like especially for a virgin you need to loosen them up

    CandyCone21 January 11, 2025 1:07 pm

    In a healthy bdsm relationship you can set those limits. Like don't leave marks on visible places. Hickies are an ick for me. I don't want to worry about wearing turtlenecks and scarves around friends and family.

    Mioro January 11, 2025 1:12 pm

    I mean it CAN be part of it if both partners are equally okay with it. In this case even tho the ML wanted to do it w/o prepping but the MC didn't so it stopped.
    They're having spontaneous sex so this things can happen but ideally they should talk this out before starting

    Also the slapping in the face usually has a different connotation, a spank is more sexy and playful or can be a slight punishment but a slap in the face is more degrading so people with a thing for degradation can rlly like that