
I used to love yaoi as well. All I've ever read was yaoi until I've had my first boyfriend lol. Idk why but it just started to weird me out since then. Maybe it's because I'm aware of how yaoi fetishizes men, and since I have great respect for my bf, I wanted to stop that...? Not sure if I made sense but I think that's how my brain went lol

omg, same! i never stopped reading yaoi tho, but as i got older, i started gravitating toward stories that are less toxic and have more depth, focusing on meaningful relationships, well-developed characters, and engaging plots. nowadays, i also read a lot of non-yaoi genres like romance fantasy, shounen, action, etc. it feels like such a huge leap from what i used to read. i mean, the first manhwa i ever read was killing stalking! can you imagine? but yeah, as we grow up, we naturally get tired of repetitive tropes, and our moral compass becomes more defined. well, at least that’s the case for some people. (⌒▽⌒)

Younger me read the most fucked up plot yaoi without any regret I m into yaoi this year it's 9 years I cannot get tired of this genre cuz I started this genre with most best classic yaois and they helped me lot if u start yaoi with today's manhwas it's evidable you will get tired of yaoi but i now as gotten older go back and forth in genres like I read shounen ai , yaoi then some josei then action but my day end with yaoi.
i loved yaoi when i was younger but now im like an adult and i lowkey dgaf about yaoi anymore did anyone else experience this, maybe i grew out of it