Not only do you know nothing about the culture, you're dumb enough to expect textbook bdsm while completely ignoring everything the bottom did wrong here lmfao You clearly know nothing and expect too much reality out of works of fiction and read them just to make yourself mad. Grow up
I don’t think you know a lot about the bdsm scene. Yes a safeword is fine but when the Dom says just say stop that „stop“ is the safeword. And trust me, experienced doms can read the room quite well. But they’re humans with pleasure too! I mean that’s the meaning when playing. So it’s totally fine to like ruining the sub. He stopped as soon as he saw it was too much to handle.
i know enough to judge the ml as someone who lacks proper bdsm mannerism bc man stopped when he knew he DID STH WRONG he shouldn't have let himself "trespass" a limit he has hasn't even set bc surprise surprise he didn't discuss it with his partner in the first place :) just bc i'm reading fiction doesn't mean i'm expecting bdsm to be different from "reality" fiction STEMS from real life elements, that being bdsm. you're talking as if it's okay to distort bdsm culture just bc the work is "fictional"? the work being fictional means the characters and the plot/story are built using the author's imagination that's all it doesn't mean that the genres and sub-genres within the work are void of realism y'all need to stop defending every wrong move authors make and popularise (shit like incest SA rape and including improper bdsm depiction) by saying it's a work of fiction it's truly dumb
it's understandable if you put it that way. but you can't deny that it's always and commonly best to discuss anything before attempting it especially if the partner is a virgin and a bdsm first timer. as someone who enjoys bdsm i literally felt uncomfortable when the sub starting writhing bc the reaction was nowhere near pleasure it was literally a mixture of fear uncertainty and shock and i don't like that this was the aftermath of sth the sub was sadly anticipating but didn't get fulfilled. it's good that the dom stopped you can tell he's good person and a good practitioner of bdsm but it's still worth critisising his haste and shallow demeanour bc none of this would've happened if they either talked abt their do's and don'ts. and btw "stop" doesn't necessarily equal "halt action" or "wait", it could be translated as "more" or even ignored under other circumstances especially if the sub could mentally endure more that's why it's safest to either settle on a different word or on the colour system just to avoid misinterpretations. it's not that idk abt bdsm it's just that i'm sick of authors portraying it incorrectly for the sake of dark romance or feeding some sick toxic dynamics between the dominant male lead and the mc which is such a turn off to me. there're lots of manhwas and mangas abt bdsm and only a few of them are written well enough to enjoy!
Yep this person is stupid as hell
Personally I like the realistic touch to it. And people won’t get traumatized by everything. The rl is not perfect and yet humans can enjoy these imperfect situations and learn a bit more every time
to the person who said i shouldn't look forward to chap 7 bc i was expecting proper bdsm you were right </3 what a disappointment... i mean yes it's consensual but the absence of communicating likes and dislikes under the pretext of sexual self-discovery as a virgin AND THE LACK OF A SAFE WORD oh i'm so pissed experienced dom my ass