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chocosteamedbuns May 1, 2017 5:16 pm

So there's this guy from my high school (I've graduated now) who at first doesn't really care about anything, everything. He accidentally joined the club I was in bc he thought it was another club/? (He joined the wrong club). I was on hiatus from club activities that time, so I found out about him a bit later. My friends told me he was really quiet, and didn't really talk with anyone. He's like that not only in the club, but in class as well. But I didn't know he was like that bc the first time i talked to him he was laughing along with me bc i was saying something really embarrassing (i told him i liked watching explicit yaoi anime T^T why did i say that..) I think he thinks that I'm weird/? Bc he kept on teasing me whenever he sees me :(
Really, i thought he was always like this, but my friends said he wasn't like this before. And whenever he talks to others it always straight to business, but he always teases me T^T
There's times when he'd called my name and when i answered 'what?' He just smirked and left. I'm so???
And there was this one time there's a competition something in the club during hiking, he won, and he gave the gifts to me T^T
We haven't met/talked for over 1 year now, and I just checked my facebook and saw a message from him. He sent the message a month ago T^T How should I reply to it \(;´□`)/

Responses
    Amazingly anonymous May 1, 2017 5:32 pm

    start off casual, it seems this guy liked/likes you. So just say hi back, ask about his life and see if and if you are able to talk with him without it being awkward that's great! :D if a guy doesn't run away from you after knowing you like yaoi, he's a keeper :p but if you don't like him like that you can still say hi, just make sure to not give him hope ;)

    Just a girl May 1, 2017 5:41 pm

    If you dont like him just respond and chat casually maybe he used to like you but sees you as a old friend now. If you like him start as friends and good luck ;)

    chocosteamedbuns May 2, 2017 8:20 pm
    start off casual, it seems this guy liked/likes you. So just say hi back, ask about his life and see if and if you are able to talk with him without it being awkward that's great! :D if a guy doesn't run away f... Amazingly anonymous

    I actually liked him when we were still in high school, after that embarrassing incident. He asked me out to dinner once, but i rejected him... Well it's bc my parents didn't allowed me to :( he always messaged me first even in the past too, but i didn't know what to reply so i just didn't reply to him at all. I'm such a horrible person :'( I wanted to reply to him but I'm not ready yet, even for just a casual chat. Why's it so hard to just talk to him T^T

    Oh btw, all of my male friends knew i like yaoi. So my crushes and the guys who have crushes on me knew i like yaoi as well bc i liked watching yaoi anime in the classroom :D

    chocosteamedbuns May 2, 2017 8:26 pm
    If you dont like him just respond and chat casually maybe he used to like you but sees you as a old friend now. If you like him start as friends and good luck ;) @Just a girl

    You're right. But I don't think I can reply to him yet. I'm still not ready to talk to him yet :( will he mind to wait a bit longer? And I just saw his message 2 days ago, and he sent the message on March too, it's been a month..

    Amazingly anonymous May 3, 2017 11:37 am
    I actually liked him when we were still in high school, after that embarrassing incident. He asked me out to dinner once, but i rejected him... Well it's bc my parents didn't allowed me to :( he always messaged... chocosteamedbuns

    If you make him wait too long, he might stop waiting. Are you even not ready to just send Hi back? Just pretend like you're talking to one of your friends instead of 'the guy' :)