exactly what I'm saying...
sorry to Min Gyeom but i just don't feel for him
I'm not going to say Min Gyeom has no faults. But when it comes to what happened at the party and the way he was treated afterwards, you cannot blame him for any of that. If he was a woman, would you be placing the blame on him like that? “You shouldn't have been wearing those clothes. You should have defended yourself.” That's typical victim blaming for sexual harassment. Also I think his seonbaes pulled him over right after the performance. You know, Korean culture is different. It's really important to respect your seonbaes. Koreans will put up with so much shit because respecting your seniors is something very important in their culture. Also, he had no way of knowing how far they'd go. The translator didn't translate it last chapter or this chapter, but he did think about when he said “If you're gonna give me money, then how much?” (before the girl put the money in his shirt). I think he was disgusted with himself for playing friendly and flirting around. Blaming himself for what happened. That's very common for someone who has experienced sexual harassment or assault.
The clothes you're wearing doesnt give a shits excuse for sexual harassment. I was harrased when all i wore was my school uniform, thats not slutty. Stop victim shaming, its not his fault.
I was confused as well. In the previous chapter he said he wanted to stay with those guys. Now he is acting like he hated it. If he hated it why did he want to stay hanging out with those guys? I'm convinced its a translation issue and he never said he wanted to stay with them. It doesn't add up.
i don't know if it's the translation or something else, but i don't understand what Min Gyeom is thinking... i see that he was frustrated about being sexually harrassed, but he should have dodged those situations in the first place! not changing his clothes right after and mingling with drunk people looking like that just seems to me that he liked it too much... and now he's being mean to Chun Sam when he's trying so hard... i am not liking Min Gyeom in this past few updates...
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