Omg it didnt offend me did it seem that way??? I said it was a compliment because the way u replied was just writtenly good and looked like it was made with effort when it already was a long reply i genuinely meant what i said when u type good lmao it wasnt that deep but yeah
Noooooo!!! I replied to my comment saying that I lowk read ur comment wrong!!!! I PROMISE you didn't souns that way, I just skimmed through ur comment lmao, sry
Shi this looks weird the eyes didnt pop up for some reason like no seriously theres probably an emoji limit to this reply section
The way u say it indicates that its fetishization
Right because women are supposed to hate men when they read bl. I got you . This why yall always got a headache going in circles creating your own problems lol. Hope you find peace. Amen
Fr, I like your name <3 also, men have always been sexualizing women so why can’t we do it back lol
Wow thank you for that the fact that u said u had 80 points more means that yk so much and theres more to deep dive about this topic and yes thank u for saying at the beginning i shouldnt have said it in that way but how yaoi is overall gaining popularity( sorry english is not my first language and i think i sound informal and immature like talking to a friend)… i used to think shonen ai just meant wholesome and no seggs so thx for educating me… When u said about women not projecting themselves onto the couple it reminded of me the anime kiss him not me and it looked like fetishization of me and that women like them are the reason why i find it weird in the first place. I also agree with what u said about women as the target audience u explained it really well i couldnt have explained it the way you did. I really need to focus on how i talk and reply. About the writers being cishet i didnt know about that either so thx again.”
That is tmi but hey this is an adult website anyway… but aint that femdom??? Correct me if im wrong lol
That is tmi but hey this is an adult website anyway so who cares…… but anways aint that just f.e.m.d.o.m. Correct me if Im wrong lol i writed it that way cause somehow my reply keeps deleting??? So im thinking is there a word im not supposed to say or something cause its definitely not word limit i didnt wrote a lot
I’m going to blab a lot about myself here, just a forewarning (I love to talk about myself):
I usually see the femdom genre involving a woman dominating a man, which I’m not interested in. Being a girl on top sucks because you’re still submissive because of your gender. If I were a femdom, I wouldn’t be completely superior or dominate. Imagine a woman being the breadwinner, and the man being the housekeeper and child keeper. It doesn’t make any sense because that woman will have trouble at work. At work, they’re viewed as inferior, emotional, and not as capable as a man.
A woman could never be a CEO, or a superior without discrimination. A male CEO is mysterious, cool, handsome, intelligent, and dominant. A female CEO slept her way to the top—she should be at home taking care of children.
A man could be dominant without other people expecting him to be submissive or trying to put him in his place. Again, a woman can never be fully powerful or dominant, only a man can. The patriarchy would have been perfect for me if I were born a white straight man.
Aint that femdom
Thanks for being so receptive to the information, more often than not people who have a problem w women reading BL tend to just argue its simply fetishization and not listen to anything else hahs
Also don't worry, english isn't my first language either, that's partially why I didn't know how to explain all the things I wanted to say since it was pretty late and my english was short-circuiting lmao. Anyways I think sounding informal is fine, specially in forums like this, as long your thoughts get across (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
HOLY SHIT I DIDNT REALIZE THERE WAS A SECOND PAGE AND I THOUGHT MY REPLY WAS GETTING DELETED AND I REPLIED 4 TIMES THIS IS EMBARRASSING
Thats the thing though i dont get my thoughts across because i dont write it in a way that makes sense and i just want to indicate the perfect meaning of what im trying to say or convey
Sorry i may be saying it wrong and im gonna ask because im genuinely curious u said u see or project urself to the seme instead of uke but you dont want that stereotypical dominant man behavior right?
What do you mean by “stereotypical dominant man behavior”?
Anyone know the reason why women love bl??? Or its majority of bl viewers are women???? And its still ongoing and any people here that are aware that they like bl in a significant and greatly way that u find it strange or dont??? You could say to me its just bl its not that big of a deal same thing with yuri and hetero romance, then why doesnt yuri get the same amount of attention from women?? And yuri is not even heavily male targeted in fact its underrated compared to bl.
Also hasnt anyone noticed that bl is heavily sex before lovers and just full of lust? Yes theres love but its normalizing lust to make it look like love before u tell me “oh same with hentai why arent u complaining about that” thats whole sex its not disguised as love its full on lust and pleasure so why cant we get a normal bl with just wholesomeness AND ALSO AGAIN before u tell me well… thats a genre or a part of the plot.. THAT DOESNT CHANGE THE FACT THAT ITS NORMALIZED IN BL MANHWAS AND MANGAS
DONT EVEN DARE TRY TO TALK TO ME IF U LIKE JINX STAY AWAY FROM ME