Another yaoi trope that never fails to annoy me: uke getting assaulted during their sleep....

Queenbanana May 6, 2017 3:16 pm

Another yaoi trope that never fails to annoy me: uke getting assaulted during their sleep.
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Now his reaction I have not seen before.
still doesn't make it ok though

Responses
    Nemoi May 6, 2017 3:44 pm

    I feel the same way, how can people think this is ok?

    shortie~ May 6, 2017 3:50 pm
    I feel the same way, how can people think this is ok? Nemoi

    Bcz it's just a fantasy story with an imaginary character. YES, It's not okay, but I liked it. Yaoi is also not okay in the first place, but we liked it( ̄へ ̄)...

    Giuliaccia May 6, 2017 4:00 pm

    Don't be overly sensitive people do this stuff all the time in real life, they're already sexual partners (only, for the moment ugh). The only thing that doesn't work it's that he should have woken up way earlier ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ Moreover his reaction prove that he's perfectly fine with it (▰˘◡˘▰)

    Nemoi May 6, 2017 4:09 pm
    Bcz it's just a fantasy story with an imaginary character. YES, It's not okay, but I liked it. Yaoi is also not okay in the first place, but we liked it( ̄へ ̄)... shortie~

    Well, it shouldn't matter if it's a fantasy story since art is a reflection of human aspects. But anyway, if you like that type of thing it doesn't matter, what does matter is the fact that there are people here who think this is ok, and that's what I was questioning, how can people think this is ok, especially when someone isn't aware of reality and isn't capable of consenting?
    Also, why isn't yaoi ok?

    Anonymous May 6, 2017 4:19 pm
    Well, it shouldn't matter if it's a fantasy story since art is a reflection of human aspects. But anyway, if you like that type of thing it doesn't matter, what does matter is the fact that there are people her... Nemoi

    Couples actually did this. Haven't your partner did this to you? Or you're single?

    Nemoi May 6, 2017 4:24 pm
    Don't be overly sensitive people do this stuff all the time in real life, they're already sexual partners (only, for the moment ugh). The only thing that doesn't work it's that he should have woken up way earli... Giuliaccia

    ust because there are people doing this it shouldn't immediately equate to "it's not a big deal", that's a very shallow thinking.
    The thing is, like i said before, the dark hair dude was sleeping (yes he was having a wet dream so what) so he didn't know what was being done to him in real life and because of that he wasn't able to consent. I honestly don't know what to think of his reaction but I'm not here to talk about that.
    The act of the red hair dude IS something to be questioned.

    shortie~ May 6, 2017 4:24 pm
    Well, it shouldn't matter if it's a fantasy story since art is a reflection of human aspects. But anyway, if you like that type of thing it doesn't matter, what does matter is the fact that there are people her... Nemoi

    Yaoi is obviously not okay in my opinion.. bcz? If my parents discover I've been reading yaoi's all this time, they would disown me... Well, probably not that far XD...

    Nemoi May 6, 2017 4:33 pm
    Couples actually did this. Haven't your partner did this to you? Or you're single? @Anonymous

    So what? What is your point? Does it matter if I'm dating or single? Does it make my questioning less relevant? I don't think so.

    TDotWitch May 6, 2017 5:16 pm
    ust because there are people doing this it shouldn't immediately equate to "it's not a big deal", that's a very shallow thinking.The thing is, like i said before, the dark hair dude was sleeping (yes he was hav... Nemoi

    It's one of the best ways to wake up but if you're not in the mood you just bat your partner away. That signifies that you don't want it and they stop. Sheesh. You need to calm down some.

    Nemoi May 6, 2017 6:43 pm
    It's one of the best ways to wake up but if you're not in the mood you just bat your partner away. That signifies that you don't want it and they stop. Sheesh. You need to calm down some. TDotWitch

    Dude, I'm very calm, and what you said is your feeling about this subject (it being a good way to wake up), it shouldn't and can't be used to brush down this genuine question because it's not about you, once again, it's about the act (that is happening with someone else, not yourself). It seems that most people are seeing that with good eyes (and please notice that I'm not putting in question the dark hair dude's reaction to the thing because it's not my place to judge THAT). I hope I'm making myself clear because I am very tired of this already.
    Also, when you say "but if you're not in the mood you just bat your partner away. That signifies that you don't want it and they stop" it's very naive to think that this is something that always happens, I'm talking about: a) the one being assaulted having the courage to deny, and b) the one attacking stopping when asked. Of course something like that can happen but not always.

    Giuliaccia May 6, 2017 8:23 pm
    Dude, I'm very calm, and what you said is your feeling about this subject (it being a good way to wake up), it shouldn't and can't be used to brush down this genuine question because it's not about you, once ag... Nemoi

    Ahahahah assaulted? Man CHILL! We're talking about partners waking the other up with sex, why are you picturing something so dark in your head? If the majority of the cases if your partners wakes you up like that it's either yes or no without any drama... About the "he was sleeping he wasn't able to consent" you put it like everytime your partner wants to have sex you have to sign some paper before, and I'm sure you know a love relationship is much more than that.

    Angela May 6, 2017 9:24 pm

    Rather than arguing about this kind of trope is good or not, i think it is better to discuss about how we can pay and support the author

    Or if you dont want to pay because this story is not your favorite, i bet you have some favorite stories from lezhin (maybe bloodbank or moritat or else), do you have some ways to buy or support the authors of your favorite stories? Would you mind to share it with us? It'll be really helpful

    NaomiBB May 6, 2017 11:03 pm

    And what annoys me the most is people like you. People start fights because of your opinion, and then they start other fights that has nothing to do with it, like person above this comment, talking about illegal translations. Meanwhile, the person is literally in the cite with us

    lalalala May 6, 2017 11:44 pm

    the only dumb thing about this is that he definitely wouldn't be sleeping trough all that

    and people that do this talk about it before, of course, but this is a fucking fantasy. get over it. simple as that. it's ok because it's fiction about fictional characters. non existent people. something that allows you to fantasize about something that you won't be able to do in real life or just can't for now.
    99% of us are sane human beings that know this is wrong.
    should author stop writing her manga because people translate it and therefore it's available to 12 year olds that can't understand it and shouldn't read it? no.