Do we tell our Bf?

Koko February 4, 2025 11:07 pm

So I’m just a girly reading all this beautiful manwhas and also the BL ones, so now is my question do I tell my boyfriend I read BL ? Like he isn’t homophobic, but well if he tells me to show him, well I would rather die XD, so should I just take it with me to my grave ? Help.. (⊙…⊙ )

Responses
    Delaoh February 4, 2025 11:09 pm

    I hide it from my bf for 2 yrs+ already,
    As long as you use different browser and not living together, i think it's fine~ it's not like we're cheating, right?

    jjj February 4, 2025 11:34 pm

    I don't see a reason why you would have to tell him. I haven't even told my sister I read BL and I have no plans to tell her XD. But if you really want to then maybe just tell him about the ones without smut.

    DontForgetTheirFeelings February 4, 2025 11:42 pm
    I don't see a reason why you would have to tell him. I haven't even told my sister I read BL and I have no plans to tell her XD. But if you really want to then maybe just tell him about the ones without smut. jjj

    Tell him to read shounen ai, and then who knows maybe he will develop feelings toward guys and become gay

    Fujoshi for Fluff only✿ February 4, 2025 11:58 pm
    Tell him to read shounen ai, and then who knows maybe he will develop feelings toward guys and become gay DontForgetTheirFeelings

    You're joking right?

    Delaoh February 5, 2025 12:12 am
    Tell him to read shounen ai, and then who knows maybe he will develop feelings toward guys and become gay DontForgetTheirFeelings

    This reply is wild lmao

    kitkat February 5, 2025 12:48 am
    Tell him to read shounen ai, and then who knows maybe he will develop feelings toward guys and become gay DontForgetTheirFeelings

    girl what

    Moruoka February 5, 2025 1:18 am
    Tell him to read shounen ai, and then who knows maybe he will develop feelings toward guys and become gay DontForgetTheirFeelings

    If this isnt satire ur brainrotted thats crazyyy

    ojisan enthusiast February 5, 2025 1:26 am
    Tell him to read shounen ai, and then who knows maybe he will develop feelings toward guys and become gay DontForgetTheirFeelings

    girl take a walk

    ojisan enthusiast February 5, 2025 1:32 am
    Tell him to read shounen ai, and then who knows maybe he will develop feelings toward guys and become gay DontForgetTheirFeelings

    i told my now boyfriend before we even started dating. i read bl a lot so while i didn't have to tell him about it, i WANTED to tell him about it just like i want to tell him about all my other hobbies

    you don't have to show him specifically what you read if you're too embarassed but i think it's okay to casually let him know since you said he isn't homophobic and maybe overtime, you'd be more comfortable (assuming he wants to know more). personally, i wouldn't date someone who'd be against me reading bl or doing any of my hobbies so if he doesn't want you reading it wellllll, that's for you to dwell on lol

    you could also just not say anything — but it wouldn't be a good idea to lie imo and say things like "i don't read bl i would never" cause if he ends up finding out, you'll look silly

    ojisan enthusiast February 5, 2025 1:32 am
    i told my now boyfriend before we even started dating. i read bl a lot so while i didn't have to tell him about it, i WANTED to tell him about it just like i want to tell him about all my other hobbiesyou don't... ojisan enthusiast

    oh HAHA sorry wrong reply

    Koko July 21, 2025 1:01 am
    I hide it from my bf for 2 yrs+ already,As long as you use different browser and not living together, i think it's fine~ it's not like we're cheating, right? Delaoh

    I hope it’s not cheating