I don't think it's the readers being misogynist here, like now let's not divide the gender stuff in every thing that's the most stupidest thing to do cause let's be honest even if we reverse the gender to 'ex bf' some readers would have had exactly the same reaction most ppl will try to understand em others will straight up hate em it would depend on individuals understanding the story, so idk why the first thing came up to ur mind was stuff like "misogynist" " hating on women" cause to me reading others hate comments i just thought some ppl didn't really try to understand the complex between em and that's y the relationship didn't last and it's fine cause that's how they feel about it
you know damn well if she had been a man the reaction would NOT have been the same. most people dont even have a proper reason for hating her other than her (reasonable) reaction or "homophobia". im sorry but a lot of times it is a gender thing and its a very real problem amongst fujos that women in bls are judged a lot more harshly. You cant say there was that much complexity there to sit and ponder, it was obvious that she was treated badly and reacted accordingly
and you know the way you can tell its obviously a gender thing is because she is being hated on while the same people who hate her have no words of criticism towards the actual toxic side of the relationship which was the mc. why is he not held to the same standard? why were his actions excusable?
And how do u know that the reaction would not have been the same??? I have seen like almost almost the story with ex they get hated a lot for no reason same in hetro or gl
i just told u why did u not read my other reply
Sry maybe since i spend very less time here i never came across any hate comments on the ex gf before and ur last question both were wrong?? Like they both couldn't really tried to understand eachother even tho they loved eachother both were at fault equally and how was mc was toxic bro wut
how was the mc .. toxic in their relationship .. I cant help u bro
Plz do share ur opinion so I can share mine i mean no hate i just would like to know ur opinion that's all (btw this is my first time having such long conversation with someone here )
ahh alright im sorry for being a little mean before, let me preface by saying i know he wasnt doing ok mentally, and I dont see her as completely blameless because yes she shouldnt have been with someone she didnt know anything about nor should she have tried to act as a therapist for him, but thats not entirely on her. He however never seemed to have any words or actions of reassurance, everything she did for him was taken for granted and even more seen as smth done out of malice, he never took any initiative and shot her down when she did, he let the words of others get to him and lashed out at her because he found it easy (which he even says when he admits he saw her as his abusive dad). he was unstable, but thats no excuse
That's true but as i said both were definitely at fault cause the ex gf pushes him doing the things that he clearly didn't wanna and mc being mentally unstable triggered him hence y he threw some really harsh words leading to their breakup but atleast she tried to help him but boy was too unstable from all the abuse to be handled, But we saw in previous chps they totally loved eachother just failed to understand on what they really want I don't think anyone was toxic it's neither ex gf or TA it's that couldn't work out cause it was not meant to ig/?, and i admit most hate comments on ex gf were just too much but im so used to it that i didn't really thought of it being as misogynist or not, cause I have seen a lot of this 'ex hate group just cause he showed up between the main couples' lol kinda funny tho but i don't want anyone to hate on any women be it in bl , hetro or gl ,I get excited most whenever any women appears in bl's cause they spicy up the things more
the issue i have is that we know mc loved her purely because of his own internal dialogue, whereas her love for him was obvious in her actions. thats where its toxic, and when i say toxic i dont mean abusive dont get me wrong. like if you imagine their relationship without the mcs internal thoughts, you would not think thats a relationship that both parties want to be in. he was obviously distant and cold, and got even worse when he would get it in his head that shes being overbearing or malicious. and the way he seems to be handling this conversation with her now too its so.. bad. id react just as guarded and as hostile as her, I dont think after we see internal monologue that he saw her as this horrible abusive figure (his dad) in his head to make it easier to lash out at her we should be seeing him act goofy and talk about having a boyfriend but rather apologize like she deserves
Bro mc acted coldly only cause he didn't wanted to go to that party cause he was uncomfortable but his ex gf kept on being pushy this is literally the only 1 panel that showed about their past and it was him who fell in lov with her at first sight still i understand ur perspective but bringing up misogynist topic was kinda unnecessary u could have just said ur view of mc being at fault when ppl were arguing with who is right and who is wrong that's just how I feel
well the misogynistic topic had nothing to do w the characters but with the reactions ive seen about the ex specifically soo.. idk. we can agree to disagree on this
its the kind of situation where u can argue either of them were in the wrong (although i heavily lean towards mc) but it felt like nobody was actually going through the thought process of why they didnt like the way she acted just that she acted crazy and the weird homophobic allegations like im sorry to me that cant be called anything else
If this was a straight manga and it was the ex gf and main ml but then readers throwing the same hate for ex gf or opinions about it u wouldn't have thrown the word "misogynist" so easily
Yup i agree with u i mean that was not even their whole conversation who knows they might stay as good frds after they talk it all out
misogynistic fujoshis in the comments? dick found in ass fork found in kitchen if u cant stand women in bls unless they're irrelevant one dimensional best friend archetypes idk what to tell u. she was in the right in all of this and my heart breaks for her, no matter what he was going through he had zero right to treat her like that