EXCUSE ME?

juheon feels that he used him, that he only approached him in order to write about him. He feels betrayed thats what this is I think ╮(￣▽￣)╭

Same. It feels like a non-issue. Even if he did use him for writing material, that doesn't negate the fact that they feel real genuine feelings towards each other and treat each other well? Dude makes it sound like he used him for money or wanted to kill his family or something. You were together long enough to know your partner has no ill will.

Its cuz he actually STUDIED him like, remember the moments he used to rile up juheon just to get "writing material." So yeah in the end he felt used because the only time when dohu sought out juheon is to get "reference" but when they were actually together, its like juheon is doing all the work, but we know thats not the case because we see how dohu sorting out the emotions he doesnt have. However, juheon doesnt know that which leads to this very big misunderstanding all because dohu cant communicate his feelings. In conclusion, its not a tatrum, juheon felt as though dohu was using him, and seeing that he still kept the file made juheon think that this was still ongoing, also the fact that dohu never said he loved juheon unless juheon asks for it just added more fire to his anger because he only viewed this as dohu's way of "gathering more information" base on juheons response to that "i love you" and not actually because dohu truly loves him but just cant express it yet. So yeahhh its messy but thats what makes this interesting.

Uhm, sorry but this IS a tantrum, even if Juheon's concerns are real. Dohu has been obtuse since the very beginning; the only thing that's changed is the fact that he's slowly learning to emote. Juheon is having a one-sided upset without actually explaining to Dohu what he's upset about. How is that not a tantrum? How is Dohu supposed to magically understand? It feels pretty shitty to be on the other side, not understanding a thing, not knowing why someone is upset at you because they don't explain it.

I think dohu very well knows why juheon is doing this? He very well know that the reason he is like this js because of what he found out, dohu himself know that what he did is wrong. Also, I think an apology is what juheon really wants in the first place. He also got hurt by the fact that dohu wants to hide the truth about it and what dohu said that dohu will rather not tell him the truth as long as he don't find out. Juheon gave him many chance to apologize but he didn't, I think that's the real issue here (￣∇￣")

I get that he feels used, but this is absolutely a tantrum. His reaction is way out of proportion for someone who committed to loving and understanding their partner, still knowing that their partner is a bit wacky and had clear boundaries before dating. If I saw this happening without any context, I'd think Dohu cheated on him or done something drastic. It's just so SO irrational the way he's escalating the situation, accusing this guy of doing something intentionally to hurt him when he could just sit down and talk about it calmly like he's done literally the whole story till now.