Yeah I agree but the part about her memory is the issue her brain is blocking it out and I have a large hunch that it's something to do with that dream he had where he came to find her laying in blood they both must've faced so much trauma and clearly after the separation she completely blocked him out most likely too much pain there and on top of that maybe as a child she also felt that ripping pain of having her brother snatched from her the only person she felt she could face the abuse with that she blocked it to protect herself from further pain but I also do believe it would be best for her to face those lost memories for her to heal and grow
Yes it's absolutely going to be hard, and shouldn't be addressed all at once. But maybe bit by bit now that she's older and more independent with a better support network, she'll be able to face it.
Definitely not all at once I really wish they had a supportive adult figure or someone smart enough to lead every single one of them to a therapist cause WOOOO the trauma in here is heavy!! Those poor babies didn't deserve a single thing
Yep every one needs a therapist lol
I would forget the "he's your brother" or "family" stuff because it's too soon and there are too many unknowns about the past. Her fearing change isn't healthy though. So maybe she can see him as an acquaintance to start with? Then over the years she can remember more and make a more informed choice on if she should see him as part of her life?