Sorry, but why does that feel gaslighting to me? Like dude, if you really wanna act like a...

Millie_ March 7, 2025 12:37 pm

Sorry, but why does that feel gaslighting to me? Like dude, if you really wanna act like an adult, do it through and through. Why agree to be a rut partner and be purposefully hurtful about it?

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    egojn March 7, 2025 12:50 pm

    He's not though he's going out of his way to help with something like this because he barely has a choice, the least seme can do is not pressure him with his unreciprocated feelings. How else can he establish that boundary in a nice way?

    Millie_ March 7, 2025 2:49 pm
    He's not though he's going out of his way to help with something like this because he barely has a choice, the least seme can do is not pressure him with his unreciprocated feelings. How else can he establish ... egojn

    But him creating an opportunity to get intimate with the kid he knows has feeling for him is not exactly helping?? He knows the seme is still a kid, he treats him like one. How is being rut partners going to help? He's better off going w his original plan.

    Kiki March 7, 2025 5:35 pm
    But him creating an opportunity to get intimate with the kid he knows has feeling for him is not exactly helping?? He knows the seme is still a kid, he treats him like one. How is being rut partners going to he... Millie_

    Exactly. He is not being honest with himself or the Sooin about his reasons for agreeing to such an arrangement.

    egojn March 7, 2025 10:43 pm
    But him creating an opportunity to get intimate with the kid he knows has feeling for him is not exactly helping?? He knows the seme is still a kid, he treats him like one. How is being rut partners going to he... Millie_

    It doesn't seem like he really wants it either though? But considering the tantrum ml throws when talking about an alternative idk if there's anything else to do

    Millie_ March 8, 2025 2:12 am
    It doesn't seem like he really wants it either though? But considering the tantrum ml throws when talking about an alternative idk if there's anything else to do egojn

    lmao so all it takes is a tantrum to agree to be a sex partner??? To someone he considers a kid he wants to teach a lesson?? Standing by what I initially said. If he wanna be a good adult example to the kid, then he gotta do it through and through. Otherwise he'll only lead him on. Since he's considering himself the "adult" in the relationship, he should know it's inevitable for the kid to have deeper feelings for him with all the sex that's about to happen. Especially since he knows the kid is in love him too.