Wait

Zii March 16, 2025 11:27 am

Wait wait in the side couple who's the dominant one? I'm not saying like inappropriate, I'm saying who's the boyfriend

Responses
    Woomb March 16, 2025 11:39 am

    Both.... since they're both men they're both boyfriends ( ̄∇ ̄")

    Xi_k March 16, 2025 11:59 am

    It’s like you’re asking who’s the man in the relationship

    nightwave March 16, 2025 12:29 pm

    Do you ask lesbians who's the man too

    Zii March 16, 2025 2:11 pm

    No please I'm sorry that I didn't explain it properly because I don't know how. What I'm trying to say is: in a relationship there's the one who is more feminine than the other and more manly than the other

    I want to know who is more feminine in their relationship because I find them so cute

    alphatitania March 16, 2025 2:23 pm
    No please I'm sorry that I didn't explain it properly because I don't know how. What I'm trying to say is: in a relationship there's the one who is more feminine than the other and more manly than the other I w... Zii

    that’s exactly their point. they’re both men. why does one need to be more ‘feminine’ and the other more ‘manly’? these heteronormative ideas are harmful to the community.

    Zii March 16, 2025 2:34 pm
    that’s exactly their point. they’re both men. why does one need to be more ‘feminine’ and the other more ‘manly’? these heteronormative ideas are harmful to the community. alphatitania

    It's just I'm used to it. I'm sorry that if I said it wrongly. I've read at least more then hundreds of BL and they always have more feminine than the other. Again I'm sorry that I asked this question, it's just what I'm used to. I didn't want to come off as rude

    Xi_k March 16, 2025 3:18 pm

    That’s what’s good abt this author is that there aren’t one the feminin one is generally a stereotype

    Woomb March 16, 2025 5:12 pm
    It's just I'm used to it. I'm sorry that if I said it wrongly. I've read at least more then hundreds of BL and they always have more feminine than the other. Again I'm sorry that I asked this question, it's jus... Zii

    It's not rude it's weird, these are kids mate.

    thesongofcats March 16, 2025 6:27 pm
    It's just I'm used to it. I'm sorry that if I said it wrongly. I've read at least more then hundreds of BL and they always have more feminine than the other. Again I'm sorry that I asked this question, it's jus... Zii

    Ik u didnt mean it in that way but BLs are fiction.. they tend to have tons stereotypes. These are one of the better ones that don't necessarily have that stereotypical mentality. Its good to just ignore things like that IMO.

    Zii March 16, 2025 8:51 pm
    It's not rude it's weird, these are kids mate. Woomb

    I don't mean it inappropriately

    Zii March 16, 2025 8:57 pm
    That’s what’s good abt this author is that there aren’t one the feminin one is generally a stereotype Xi_k

    This was all I wanted tbh. I just wanted some simple explanation

    Xi_k March 16, 2025 9:18 pm
    This was all I wanted tbh. I just wanted some simple explanation Zii

    Then you should’ve worded it better, don’t be offended or anything you made a mistake and now you realised it so it’s okay

    Woomb March 16, 2025 9:19 pm
    This was all I wanted tbh. I just wanted some simple explanation Zii

    You shouldn't need one, it's just hella weird to expect queer relationships to have a heterosexual dynamic.

    Zii March 16, 2025 9:50 pm
    You shouldn't need one, it's just hella weird to expect queer relationships to have a heterosexual dynamic. Woomb

    Like I said: It is what I was used to. I apologize for being weird, rude or offensive. I didn't want to come off as those, I just can't word it better because my English is not that good

    nightwave March 16, 2025 10:26 pm

    Ok, I don't know how old you are and how much you know about non-heterosexual relationships, so I'll give you this summary of what happens in real life, and in comics/manga.
    IN REAL LIFE:
    - You don't ask who's the man and who's the woman, that would be rude. You don't ask people their roles in bed either.
    - In a gay relationship, both would be men and in a lesbian relationship, both would be women. There's some nuance with non-binary people but we won't get into that right now. There are stereotypes in comics where one needs to be macho man and the other cute smol uwu, but in reality, both can be masculine, both can be feminine, the shortest and cutest one can be the top, the bigger one can be the bottom, and a lot of guys in the community like changing positions, actually.
    IN MANGA:
    - USUALLY the shortest and/or prettiest one is the bottom. It's a tired trope that comes with the idea that one "has to be the woman", and that taking it up the ass is "the woman's role", this is luckily changing but it's pretty slow.
    - In this manhwa in particular, they're minors. It's true that sexual relationships are still depicted in comics when they're high schoolers sometimes, but this art style in particular is too innocent, the story itself is too wholesome, and they're drawn in a way that honestly makes me feel icky as to know which one is the top and which one is the bottom.
    - If you're still curious, the author answered that question...with Mi-Rye and Kyungbin, in which the former is the top. The author revealed that in the first season's epilogue (that's not here, just in the raws), and I don't know why, honestly, because in the same breath they also said they wouldn't draw any +19 stuff so, that's that.

    nightwave March 16, 2025 10:27 pm

    Sorry for the length, I just noticed you might be young, inexperienced with these things, and who knows whether or not English is your first language, yet we all attacked you. Let me know if my comment clarifies anything and if you need some help with other terms people threw at you here.