I don't understand why some of yall are so mad the author is a man. There actually are som...

it's because only women are allowed to fetishize gay men in yaois and men can't do the same

Literally sum it up

Now we are comparing two bad things to see which is more bad..wow what a progressive mentality.

Sorry can you explain better? (I didn't understand your think on the matter, sorry english is not my first language)

You're missing the point. No one’s saying fetishization is okay from either side. The frustration is about the double standard. How people tolerate or even defend women doing it but get hostile when a man draws same thing even respectfully. Calling out hypocrisy isn’t 'comparing two bad things'. it’s demanding equal standards across the board. If you're gonna condemn one, condemn both. Otherwise, you're just gatekeeping based on gender

Basically was saying that people seem fine when women create BL stories that might fetishize unrealistic body proportions, but when a man does the same, even if the story is good or respectful, people get angry or uncomfortable. The frustration is about that unfair double standard. It’s not saying either side is right to fetishize, just that the way people react depends on the gender of the creator, which feels unfair.

That's what I said. I criticize both cause both of them are equally bad. Being respectful with the story does not condemn the weird proportion of fl's body. That size of boobs and hips in that petite body normally causes spondylitis and some minors think that proportion is okay just like how some immature people think that those bigahh di*k size on bls is okay. These all increase insecurities and high asf expections. None of them should be normalised even if the story is good. How tf is drawn respectfully? A normal person with a brain would obviously criticize the art style. I saw an insta reel where the girl was trynna get a body like the fl of this story. Is this really okay?