
Yeah using doesn't mean you dehumanise someone like they're a sex toy. Seo-in clearly knows that baek has never done this before and yet took him to that orgy-ish place. For what? What kind of twisted manipulation is this to someone you loved so much? And then the whole sex bit also is forced, uke is always in pain. I've read enough "good" ones to know that; it ain't gotta be like this. You can be obsessed & still know how to respect your partner's physical boundaries.

Exactly what I said too, right? Baek's character is romanticising it. Let's call spade a spade? It's shitty writing. Noone in their right mind with the kind of self-respect (like baek) would let anyone cross their physical boundaries like that. I liked it when he fought back & punched back but now he's complacent and being manipulated.
Painful backstory doesn't justify almost raping your 1st love? And the uke, baek is romanticising it just like any other poorly written story. Only the 2nd time seemed more consensual (in the shower) but there's no sorry for that 1st time, no acknowledgement that it was forced. Ugh.
Having a shitty childhood doesn't excuse you from being a shitty adult.