I can't believe the people who pierced you didn't tell you this, but it takes a couple weeks for piercings to heal...
Here is a guide on how to handle ear lope piercings: http://m.wikihow.com/Care-for-Newly-Pierced-Ears
Anna is right. Piercings take much longer than 3 days to heal. 2 weeks is a minimum for the earring to remain in the ear. Some technicians recommend leaving them in for a month, in order to keep the hole from closing over. It is quite all right to rotate the post or hoop in the ear during that time, especially while you swab it with a 3% hydrogen peroxide solution or isopropyl alcohol. Just don't remove it. Peroxide is a little better than rubbing alcohol since it tends to cauterize the skin cells which stops plasma in the wound from suppurating and helps seal the wound from dirt, bacteria and other septic matter. Also, rubbing alcohol tends to thin the blood, which means it won't easily stop bleeding. The reason you rotate the earrings is to keep your plasma cells from sticking your ears to them.
There are 2 other issues you need to be aware of: (1) potential metal allergies, and (2) infection. Some people are allergic to metal, even surgical steel. If this is the case in your situation, the earrings will be a constant source of irritation, even after many weeks. But there are likely to be other signs if it is an allergy. For example, metal bracelets, watches and necklaces will cause the same sort of rashes. You can try experimenting with other metals, like 24 carat gold, but there usually isn't a thing you can do except remove the earrings and let the holes close.
If it's an infection, that means something septic has entered the wound. The treatment will depend on the severity of infection, but you don't want it to enter your bloodstream where it can travel to your organs or other parts of your body, so treat it seriously. You will be able to tell it's an infection if it is angrily red, painfully swollen and oozes pus, which is a thick yellow or greenofish liquid. Start by attempting to clean up as much of the infection as possible with rubbing alcohol, iodine or peroxide. Soak a wad of cotton batten in the antiseptic and gently rub it into the wound every hour until you cleared away as much of the pus, blood and biowaste as possible. Keep the area around the piercings meticulously clean and dry. If it doesn't clear up after a couple of days, or it suddenly starts getting worse, go see a doctor and get a prescription for oral antibiotics. If those don't work, you may need to book an appointment at a clinic to have the infection lanced and cleaned out.
Pierced ears is destroying your temple. It is a sin. Remove your earrings!

I got my ear pierced this june 1 on my lobe part i got two pierced and they used a piercing gun, i got it pierced at the mall. It's already june 4 and it doesn't seem to be healing and it got worse today cuz last night i moved the earring around to check if there's any visible swelling cuz it really hurts when i press and move the earrings and it appears to be none, i tried removing both of the earrings earlier and it freaking hurt so i wasn't able to remove it and the pain worsened, it's not rlly swelling but it hurts when i move the piercing around helpppppp i dont know what to do my mom just told me to not try to remove it again and to let the wound close but it's been 3 days and the wound's not yet healed, i dont know if i have diabetes causing the wound to heal slowly and i can't go to the doctor to have this checked cuz school starts tomorrow what to doooooooooo T_T