From what experience I have had with family members having trauma or psychological issues is that the need to acknowledge it first. Recognize they need help and consent to get help willingly, if not they will not get better if they do not want help. So in this instance SeoAn is probably waiting on Woowon to acknowledge he needs help otherwise he cannot help Woowon if he doesnt want the help. All he can do is wait and go with the pace Woowon has set. Forcing people to get help usually makes the reject the help for some reason or another. It's really frustrating.
Totally agree with you! I'm someone who was forced to 'get better' and let me tell you, it's more mentally deteriorating than anything in this world.
It’s definitely too soon to speak on it lmfao. It’s been like 2 chapters.
Hope you are doing better. And yes I saw the with my family member. And all I know is that as that person was hurting I was hurting as well but I know that They were hurting more. So I do hope you have found some peace with whatever you were or are dealing with.
I'm really conflicted about what to make out of this current scenario this manhwa is showing. woowon visibly needs that professional help but what I don't understand is how seoan , somebody who has been in a similar situation before not doing something about that?
dont get me wrong. I love them both and this manhwa so much that ive left the plot completely to however upi will present it to us , but it still hurts reading woowon's sufferings.
at present , ive had a few thoughts in my mind .
first being , maybe seoan is just not familiar with taking care of someone (its okay, there are cases like that. no issues). we've seen glimpses of his childhood, and maybe he's just not that used to it as woowon was , since he was already looking after his mother.
or another one being , maybe it'll only work if the person involved, in this case woowon , himself seeks out for help , in which case , still i feel like seoan , as someone experienced has to have that conversation with him.
like this def isnt something that can be overcome with the power of love. nd let's not forget , its may have been woowon who supported seoan throughout his recovery process , but it was seoan's therapist who initially gave him the idea to get to try to know woowon in the first place.
I really don't know how it'll work out. maybe it's still too soon to speak on it since we've only had a few chapters since s3 commenced but it still pains me nonetheless.