I mean yeah he's non chalant but he litterally doesn't communicate
I mean yeah, it was obvious from the start that he is just stupid.
Not a toxic, fuck boy, manipulator just a straight up dumbass
Introvertedness and nonchalance are not the same thing lmao. I'd know because I'm introverted and actually have social anxiety. That doesn't mean I make my friends feel invisible or doubt my affection from them. You can have healthy relationships as a reserved person, do you know the meaning of nonchalance? It means you just don't give a fuck. YOU scare me with how ignorant you are
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I never said 'he' was an introvert but as an introvert myself(I also have social anxiety) I can see parts of myself in his character. Maybe that says another thing about me but not the point. The guy did answer his boyfriend when he asked, it was just very surface level. To him that was okay. Yeah he needs to improve but to him that's normal behaviour. The hate that he has been receiving is a tad too crazy seeing as he's not a cheater or anything. He feels like a real character, like someone I've met before. And as someone who is uncomfortable with talking about their feelings and learning to change that, I have gotten the same hate for being a 'vague' person. I apologize for the long reply but I'm not tryna tussle. Just being as real as I can as someone with a different experience from you. Maybe my own comment was too harsh, I apologize but I said that because the comments felt very aggressive. No hard feelings.
Which I can understand but is it not valid to not like that in a partner? I think you can be as vague or as nonchalant as you wanna be but there’s also going to be people that hate that kind of thing? Jeongseok’s vagueness and secrecy is something he is allowed to have. Hey you’re allowed to be as withdrawn as you wanna be(I’m also an introvert but I also love clarity) but how many times is your NEW partner going to tell you “hey it makes me uncomfortable when you do x” and they keep vocalizing how it makes them feel and instead of trying OR just leaving them alone, they keep wanting to be around? I think communication isn’t just what you say it’s how you behave as well. You have no problems vocalizing when you wanna fuck? But you can’t tell me you like me? You can’t tell me about something that’s important? I’m just fun? Especially when let’s be real gun was coerced into a relationship with jeongseok not even lowkey highkey.
Genuinely don't remember all of that towards the end but I never said he was without fault (not saying you did). He needs some obvious deep work with himself yeah. I can see how his nature mixed with his past experiences to get where he is now, plus he never thought to explore why his relationships never worked so ofc he has issues. I'm not dismissing that. I just wanted to comment on how he carries himself/his speech but I don't think I'm getting things across well
Ayy man now I feel bad because I was kinda aggressive as well which may just be me projecting because I have a personal vendetta against nonchalant people irl. I'm really sorry man idk why I had that energy over a manwha, I should have been more mature
He's literally just a nonchalant guy. I think that was obvious from the start so idk why everyone was so up in arms. I hope some of you never have introverted/naturally quiet friends cause omg. y'all scare me, ugh.