Please someone tell me if it's worth it

Makkaee May 17, 2025 5:27 am

I have avoided it this long because I hate reading toxic redflag shit that gets brushed aside without proper redemption. However I have heard good things about the relationship b/w MC and ML. I also heard that MC gets raped by others a lot and I don't want the angst. Is it as heartbreaking as A Married Man, or nah? I am ok with spoilers.

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    lin1 ratiorine hkv ftw May 17, 2025 3:03 pm

    not worth it imo. it was good at the start but progressively got worse by the end. i wish i could have all my time and the emotional investment i put into this back.

    spoilers:
    the part i hated most was that as revenge for the guy who had mc raped many times, the "green flag" ml gang raped his older brother. absolutely vile shit i was so horrified. worst part is that the author, the readers and the characters alike all justify it even tho he (the man who got raped bc of the ml) never did anything wrong, it was all his younger brother's doing. there were so many goddamn rape scenes in here it's genuinely hard to get through.

    the good things i can think abt is like the art is really gorgeous and the mc is a sweetheart

    Makkaee May 22, 2025 5:38 am
    not worth it imo. it was good at the start but progressively got worse by the end. i wish i could have all my time and the emotional investment i put into this back.spoilers: the part i hated most was that as r... lin1 ratiorine hkv ftw

    What the fuck?! Wdym an innocent person got raped for revenge?? If he wanted revenge, why not rape the dude who was pulling all that shit?? I fucking hate that. Thanks for the warning. I def will not read it.

    bpfujo May 23, 2025 2:21 am
    What the fuck?! Wdym an innocent person got raped for revenge?? If he wanted revenge, why not rape the dude who was pulling all that shit?? I fucking hate that. Thanks for the warning. I def will not read it. Makkaee

    well he wasn't exactly innocent, i believe he was also part of the sex trafficking trope. so technically "rape the dude that was pulling that shit" is partially right haha. it was evil revenge but looking at how evil and annoying the younger brother was begging for forgiveness was quite satisfying.

    i haven't read a married man but i read missing love which is absolutely traumatising and lack of love until the last few chapters.

    pearl boy was pretty sweet from start to end imo, except for parts where the villain plots and the angst and rape comes in. all of the issues with the red flag villain gets resolved and mc ml gets their own happy ending!!! i actually re-read cause the art style and smut is actually a blessing.

    tenlee127 May 23, 2025 4:07 am
    What the fuck?! Wdym an innocent person got raped for revenge?? If he wanted revenge, why not rape the dude who was pulling all that shit?? I fucking hate that. Thanks for the warning. I def will not read it. Makkaee

    he wasn't innocent in the slightest, that commenter is ur causal incest shipper. dont listen to them. those 2 twins literally didnt gaf about jooha (the mc) being graped constantly by the younger one, and the older one was managing it. they deserved dooshiks revenge, fuck them.

    lin1 ratiorine hkv ftw May 23, 2025 2:23 pm
    he wasn't innocent in the slightest, that commenter is ur causal incest shipper. dont listen to them. those 2 twins literally didnt gaf about jooha (the mc) being graped constantly by the younger one, and the o... tenlee127

    oh hell nah where the hell did you get that? i was disgusted by the incest, maybe i just misremembered the other parts of his character tho. it has been over a year since i read it. however if you think it's okay to rape someone as revenge, and that people "deserve" to be raped you are fucking disgusting and should be behind bars i hope you know that.

    Makkaee May 30, 2025 10:49 pm
    well he wasn't exactly innocent, i believe he was also part of the sex trafficking trope. so technically "rape the dude that was pulling that shit" is partially right haha. it was evil revenge but looking at ho... bpfujo

    Missing Love is A Married Man. That had me def scarred for life. I was bawling my eyes out and getting dehydrated. I also stopped reading at one point and I am too scared to touch it again. I will get to it eventually because despite the angst, it's super good.

    I have always seen the hype for Pearl Boy but I just don't want to get scarred again. I used to eat up all the fucked up shit as a kid/teen, but now as I get older, I just want fluffy romance.

    bpfujo May 31, 2025 3:29 pm
    Missing Love is A Married Man. That had me def scarred for life. I was bawling my eyes out and getting dehydrated. I also stopped reading at one point and I am too scared to touch it again. I will get to it eve... Makkaee

    oh! i didn't know the alt name. but yes, i totally understand you!! (but i still conclude that pearl boy is much better to missing love,,, though i finished the manga in one night and am an angst enjoyer i didn't particularly like missing love.)

    defs read whatever feels comfortable for you! pearl boy though sweet still pretty fucked up cause of rape and just malicious sexual intent but ml is always there for mc the whole plot, so it didn't feel like the useless ml in missing love lmao.

    stillll, maybe not the cup of tea for you. but i absolutely love angst so idk any fluffy romance for you . maybe like love tractor, define the relationship (started as contractual r/s), smyrna & capri??? anyways happy reads

    Makkaee June 1, 2025 4:23 am
    oh! i didn't know the alt name. but yes, i totally understand you!! (but i still conclude that pearl boy is much better to missing love,,, though i finished the manga in one night and am an angst enjoyer i didn... bpfujo

    I have read all of the ones you suggested in the end hehe. But yeah maybe one day I will start Pearl Boy and finish it in one go. I had doubts about Low Tide in Twilight and I hated how it was at first but the redemption arc for Taeju was pretty good so I liked it.

    tenlee127 June 12, 2025 4:42 am
    oh hell nah where the hell did you get that? i was disgusted by the incest, maybe i just misremembered the other parts of his character tho. it has been over a year since i read it. however if you think it's ok... lin1 ratiorine hkv ftw

    so basically jooha shouldve gotten raped and his man shouldnt have gotten revenge for him and shouldve just watched as jooha was raped and shouldve done nothing....i pray u lose the capability to conceive cs clearly u cant care for ur own....weird ass bitch u support incest and rape.