You're so real for that because I get MC misery, but like bffr he likes you now you're only miserable cuz you refuse to let go
You guys don’t understand MC’s side. He’s introverted and depressed, bec right now ML is a different person in his eyes, the previous ML was pretending he doesn’t like oranges was it? and he’s fine w/ cockroaches, but the memory loss ML doesn’t like oranges and cockroaches. What MC is feeling right now is he’s seeing the ML as a different person basically just a shell of the old ML, no matter the affirmation and validation the memory loss ML will give, MC will never acknowledge it. You know the saying “We accept the love we think we deserve.” and also “You can never experience the same love twice.” That’s what MC is feeling right now. They were so in love yesterday, but the day after the ML no longer recognized him. It was like he was ghosted and had to carry all those memories alone. He needs time to heal from that love, that’s all.
No, like I understand the MC, he has been through a lot but they both have. It’s not ML fault that he decided to fake a lot of shit before he lost his memories either and he just lost his parents so he was allowed to be angry and wary at the beginning.
It’s just he’s not even giving him a chance, he just decided that’s not his guy and that’s it but no, that’s actually his guy. He’s the one that’s choosing to see him as a different person when he’s not.
Falling in love with him once more is him regaining himself and MC just rejected that. He could have given himself more time to process but that’s not what happened here.
I’m sorry but I think you’re really not getting what I’m trying to say.
Love is based on shared history and connection. it’s often rooted in shared memories, experiences, and emotional intimacy built over time. If one person loses all of that (through amnesia), it’s not just a loss of memory, it’s a loss of the relational context that made love possible.
To the non-amnesiac partner, the person in front of them may look the same, but they aren’t the same emotionally, mentally, or relationally.
The partner who remembers the relationship has the right to grieve the loss of the person they once loved and decide not to start over. Just because someone with amnesia wants to rekindle a relationship doesn’t obligate the other to reciprocate — especially if that love is now one-sided or fundamentally altered. That imbalance can be deeply painful, confusing, or even traumatic, and it’s okay to set boundaries or choose not to re-engage romantically.
“I don’t want to get back together, you’re not the same person I fell in love with.” That’s not cruelty; that’s recognizing the deep shift that’s occurred and choosing authenticity over obligation.
No, I understood, but for me that’s you not really loving the person itself but what they gave you and that’s even worse.
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No like wtf. I would get angry
If I was the ML I would get angry I went and fell in love all over again just to be rejected because of arbitrary reason, it’s not his fault he cannot remember and even then he did everything.