For you.

Well i do had this bestfriend of mine. And we're together for 6 years. We are verrryyy close and fun togeter. But when I told him that I love him, he just simply shove away. Reason? He told me He's not gay. Well now 2 yrs have already passed and yknow what? He's already in a 1yr relationship. Wt a guy. Soooo yeah. Big no. No. It's a manga anyways, not real life.

Aw fuck. *hugs*

I've seen my friends struggle with loving another friend. It doesn't always work out. Also, don't use mangas/manhwas as a reference for real life situations lol

I won't fight you on that, everything has an exception after all real life or not. One thing's for sure though, if he doesn't see your worth then he don't deserve you. May you find someone who's a whole lot worthy of your affection. (∩_∩)

It's not that they don't see your worth, it's just sometime there's the burden of coming out. A guy confessed and I kinda like him but as much as I want, even though I'm bi, I'm not yet out.

I believe that if you truly like someone, you're ready to drop all pretenses no matter how hard things might go. So, i think that you're just not ready yet and maybe, a bit unsure of whether it's worth getting out of the closet just for him. Maybe even weighing the pros and cons? Though you should probably make up your mind soon and give your honest answer to him. Don't make him wait too long. Just my opinion. (╹◡╹)

Sorry honey but life isn't like Romeo and Juliet where you'd ran away from it all for the sake of love. In real life, there a lot of responsibilities and relationships honed that you can't just drop in one go. Coming out is not simply saying you're proud to be gay, it's also preparing yourself to cut ties from your friends and families. I'm not saying you don't know how it feels but this isn't like a yaoi where everything could be hoped to end well and good. Sorry for being triggered.

No need to be sorry. We share different kind of views so it's only normal. It's just my own experience talking. You don't actually need to cut those ties. You make them understand first and if they can't, give them enough space to let them think about it no matter how long it takes. After all, it's YOUR life not THEIRS. If you're happy with who you are then just simply embrace it, their opinions won't matter once you're gray and old. You can't please EVERYONE so just stop trying, just to be the one who's in pain at the end of the day. You're message tells me that YOU ARE afraid of something I won't be able to guess. Yup, there's also the pain of coming out because they can't understand you. Some won't even try to understand you. Well, let me tell you, that's pure shit. Me? I don't need anyone like that. Those people are toxic and will be the death of me. I am my own. I live for my own and I'm going to show them that they can keep their opinions to their selves once I become successful cause I'm trying. Working harder than them. Just to tell you, I know that kind of pain and it still hurts cause there's always this thought 'why can't they understand'. Just that, I gathered everything I can to move forward so one day, I won't be looking back regretting something I haven't done because of my own cowardice. I'm bi. My family knew it and I'm still in the process of making them understand. My friends knew it. Some talk behind my back. Some are even putting their distance (like they are my type (╬￣皿￣)凸). THAT SHIT HURTS BUT WHAT CAN I DO. I AM WHO I AM. LET THEM ALL GO TO HELL. I'M JUST BEING ME. I'm not angry, just getting things out of my chest. ( ´ ▽ ` )ﾉ

I understand. Allow me to keep my mouth shut the next time. ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~