You got it on the dot you def understood this story, like realistically some people can’t afford to leave the safe option.
The last part is true, but in the end a lot of people end up marrying people of lower status because of love (why is it always women too) my aunt ran away from home to marry some unemployed guy bro and they're living the life today because she works and just stays home
He just stays home *
fr lmao like why we babying a 23 year grown ass man like he sum naive teenager
I meannn what's wrong with street cleaners?? Aren't cleaning streets better than having no job at all??? You will not marry for a status. You marry because of love.
Ikr it seems weirdly discriminatory, i have more respect for street cleaners than people who are unemployed and complain about others all day
It's great that you'd do that, but that's not the general consensus of the society. We're not here to preach about morals; but rather, we're all speculating with a realistic grounded reality that takes into account all the human characteristics which would explain the above the story.
And you're absolutely right, i also have a woman close to me who's family was really rich but went against her fam's wishes to marry a poor man.
Now she steals from her family whenever she can. So ofcourse people do marry for love, but Money is the truth of the capitalistic world we live in.
Okay. But not all "poor" were like that. And that is not also the TRUTH about society. But just part of it. Maybe it's like that where you grew up. But it isn't like that for everyone. Many family even if they lack of money were truly happy and contented. I am not saying this because i lack wealth. I lowkey came from a well off family and my bf rn isn't. There is no one against it. My parents (they are the rich ones) even love him. Didn't discriminate his status. And is proud of him doing a moral job. I am kinda triggered cause at some point of his life, he became a street cleaner shortly to provide for his study. Cause they can't afford school before.
That's on the woman's part, my aunt however lives well, and her husband is as refined and gentlemanly as could be, I'd say more than the rich bratty folks I've met. It's upto the person on how they act, I've met honest hardworking poor people, it's the reality, idk why you think every poor person is somehow desperate to steal, I'm not trying to preach about morals though it's my genuine experience with society.
Gurl a hardworking man who does his job honestly and cares for you is such a rare gem these days, so happy that your parents accept him
Idk what society you live in because not everyone thinks like that. Society is multifaceted and can have people of varying opinions. Also I have a feeling that the fl fell for our ml because of this air of poverty around him,(one of the reasons, cuz his face card is also 10/10) a stark contrast to her situation, she was probably sick of her surroundings and the fake ass people, the ml showed her something genuine, plus he does act pitiful that would melt anyone's heart. I'm think our fl might actually leave everything behind to be with the guy, no matter how much she pretends to care about status and money she's down bad (if he doesn't turn out to be a player cuz the last panel was suspicious). I respect your opinion though and your original comment is right, i just felt like the thing about street cleaners was condescending. Sorry if this turned into a argument
You're absolutely right and I completely agree with you. But again, i have to stress that most people aren't like that. People look to create family with people of similar status, it's not wrong nor is it right; it's just a human characteristic. But ofcourse, just because someone isn't well off doesn't mean they'll resort to bad things! But again, i must stress that this isn't with respect to a small part of the society that doesn't feed into the world's capitalistic expectations but rather about a fictional story that discusses the majority of the society.
Idk how me sharing a personal experience became to be treated as general statement on the state of society or poor people. I really hope you guys read all of my messages again and try not to cherry pick; try to see what I'm saying instead of what you think I'm saying or try to read AROUND whatever phrase you disagree with.
You're absolutely right, I agree with everything you've said here!! But only thing I wanna say is that, I think FL would wanna leave everything to be with him but I feel like he'll dump her..
I TOLD YOU GUYS, right when the first few chapters came out, I commented—what if the girl genuinely catches feelings and the guy is the one who comes out unscathed.
Also I see a lot of trying to BABY the guy, like please BFFR. He knew he was a homewrecker, he knew they would never have a proper relationship, he knew what the fuck he was doing. He wasn't some unknowing victim, rather he was a willing participant of this chaos.
And just as I predicted, the oh so Stoic woman is hopelessly and heavily involved but realises this will only hurt her, so she ends it. She realises it would never work, because it'll be impossible for her to leave her fiance; because as much as yall would love to pretend status in a society doesn't matter, it really really does. You would not marry a street cleaner, your family wouldn't let you.