dick size differences between the top & bottom (lowkey funny how we all figured out yuta was the bottom in the side stories for pearl boy cuz he has a tiny dick)
I HATE THAT TOO like why can't a bottom be packing??
when the bottom is “wet”. like, their ass is “wet” in the way a woman gets wet. that’s not how that works.
also the fact there is NEVER prep in BL stories even though it’s a common topic about gay sex in actual gay communities.
going in dry during anal.
uncomfortable sex positions that are presented as unbearably pleasurable but realistically would trigger sciatic pain in any normal person.
the way that a majority of bottoms in these stories seemingly have zero sexual experience before they meet the top. some have been so abstinent they barely know how to masturbate. of course, the couple is the same age and the top has already slept with 100 other people, but the bottom hasn’t even had his first kiss yet.
i hate that because it happens a lot when traditional straight gender roles are forced onto a gay couple, and the bottom who is forced into the role of a woman also has a purity complex projected onto him. because who wants a woman if she’s not a virgin? smh
Tbh this typpa shit usually shows in korean yaoi.. IN CHINESE (very rarely jp) BL WE TRUST!
When a caracter has a personality, likes and dislikes and even flaws (other than being possessive) and it all goes away as soon as they get together/have sex, cause now they have to be strong posesive guy who punches walls and the uwu im gonna get hurt/kidnapped/assaulted every chapter from now on
I tbh just assumed that the writer is most likely a virginity lol.. never could've imagined that someone could ever think gay people never prepped their ass before going in like bro it's not a pussy it's an asshole ( :ﾟ皿ﾟ)
When they sexualize the uke more than the seme like I want to see the seme’s ass too they need to stop acting like he doesn’t have an asshole that’ll show in certain sex positions. That’s why authors who write submissive semes hold my heart, they don’t care about their seme looking not always “masculine”. Men can show weakness too without having to be an uke. At this point they make the roles look as if they’re a man and woman.
Mine is probably how obsessed the tops are with the bottoms nipples? Why do the authors always give them a nip kink LOL
(PS. I'm not talking about anything horrid, like grape or whatever, that's obviously horrible, just something stupid you don't like)