right ?? ugh like it’s not exactly grooming but it’s still icky because she was an adult EVEN before she transmigrated!! like it might be different if she was a teenager like 15-16 when she died but NO she was a fully grown adult! why in the fuck are they hinting that this young ass boy is the ml ??
Its always like that with every réincarnation stories. All Fl dates a younger boy as they were much older in their past lives. And no one never said something about it.
listen idk why people don't think twice before reading grooming shit plot. I start to get grossed out once I hit my teenage years hell I didn't even fucking know the word "grooming" not until I fucking read it in a comment and then I'm like oh shit this is fucking sick. after that I try my fucking best to avoid that fucking grooming plot but no matter what majority fucking webtoon have grooming regredless of the fucking gender has the gross grooming plot. Also, the way how they make the woman grooming to be is that it started off as cute child caring and then developed alike a backstabbing grooming plot. I can't fucking tell u the amount of fucking time I was happy thinking it would be a childcaring plot not until I start to see hints of fucking blushing and I'm loosing my shit saying "NO FUCKING WAY. DON'T U FUCKING KISS HIM/HER!! I'm gonna be sick " I drop as soon as I sense romance. Now on to the male grooming plot everything started off kick ass ML want revenge so he up grade his skills or magice whatever they have then all of a sudden some little girl come along be friend the ML (ME: thinking ahh that's cute they are friend finally I got a friendship troop) everything was going find until fucking like 10-20 chapter in the girl is blushing and I'm like "WHAT THE FUCK she is a kid don't be grooming plot please don't fucking be it!! AHHHHHH!! get me the fucking bleach my fucking eyes". I pretty much get clickbated like a fucking idiot and drop as soon as I sense grooming shit happening. I understand some people want age gap relationship but u don't fucking meet them if they 15 years old or 5 fucking years old cause as soon as the character or person interact with them they don't fuckng know their own feeling how the fuck do they even know what is romantic love and what is friendship love? they don't fucking know point blank. I also don't know why no 1 have said any shit but I'm just keep note to meself on shit plot to voide cause I'm pretty sure they are some people like me that find this fucking plot grossed out.
The best way for the author to avoid the grooming plot is to simply make both characters to have the soul of an adult in the kids body. Not where one body has an adult soul and the other one is actually a kid have 0 experience in life. Furthermore I don't like how they be using past life knowledge and make them seem smart when they ain't. Hell sometime the kids that is being groomed are saying shit like " they so smart, that is so cool" do u see they are admiring the MC don't even fucking know that they are being groomed oh and best line from FL ( Scarcasm) "ohh he's not gonna kill me, he's so cute and innocent" then all of a sudden the kid become possiveve over the FL I'm like "hold the fuck up he was just admiring her how the fuck did that happen?" then when u read in between the lines her words and actions of so call encouragement for the kid were her basically grooming him saying shit like " your so cute, adorable, and she kiss him on the cheek and hug him" then she will be like " with all the hard work i put in there is no way he's gonna kill me now" mind u she is literally the only adult around the kid that show cares toward.
now some of u all be like "what is wong with that ? it's normal" no it's fucking not which motherfucker out there will hug and kiss random stranger kids? lets be real the FL just meet the kid like literally few cp/days ago. The way i see it the author make the kid be dependent on the MC so much so that they don't want the MC to be with anyone else because it's more like they fear MC will forget about them. let's me real I'm no fucking psychologist but u all should know how grooming start it's almost as if trying to trap the kid to depend on the so call MC. Now idk how u all will feel about this but at some point, i feel like authors out there want to say that it's the kid's fault for being groomed because they wanted to monopolize MC affection for themselves so it's not MC fault. Now I'm a be a bit exhagrated for u to understand how disguign it is to blame the kid.
lets say a rapist rape a victim the guys a perfect 10 out of 10 he's minding his on business he was with his friend they were at the club to have fun no rated -r shit they just want to drink and dance now out of no where a woman saw him in a drinking state lead him away from his friend and raped him without his consent he's fucking drunk out of his mind while she is of fully mind. Now who is in the wrong?
A. it was the guys fault for drinking so much he should know that a club is dangerous
b. he shouldn't have dress himself up to go to the club
c. He was asking for it
d. the woman was in the wrong because she wasn't drunk and took advantage of the guy that was completely drunk.
Now same scenario just switch the genders again, who would be at fault? it would be the person that is not drunk, that is fully completely sober
so in this grooming plot who is at fault it's the author or if the author don't want to take responsibility it would be their MC that they reincarnated. Look all what I'm saying is that gender don't matter what is wrong is fuckng wrong. People need to understand that.
fuck i wrote a lot i didn't think it was a lot. if it's too much to read I understand if u don't want to read it
Rightttt ,I understand, like for me, its the same probleme with
1) having a child body and being 20 years old in mind and Falling in love with a real child, and
2) a woman of 20 marrying a child.
Many readers will have a probleme with the second, but not the first. Hey, its the SAME.
facts bro or sis they be over using this shit and I don't even think they realize what their plot is actually is grooming. I would prefer the adult soul to be in adult body but they almost always give them the kid body I'm like they into some nasty grooming shit going on.
FL is not 19 year old let me explain.
FL og body from the 21st century was 25 years old when she died.
She reawakened in the maid's child's body when the maid's body was 12 years old.
So, for her to be 19 she was in the maid's body for 7 years.
Now comes the real age of FL 25+7 = 32 years old. That is her actual age
So idk how u feel about a 32-year-old adult woman dating an actual 15-year-old kid. Also, technically, the Age gap is not 4 it's actually 17. Now let that sink in ☠
Now if the role was reverse it's still disgusting I don't give a fuck if some of u all past ancestors date with 20 years age gap u definitely know if u fucking date a kid while your age is a legal adult I'm fucking judging the shit out of all of u. I also don't give a fuck if it's 4 years apart it's nasty for a 15 year old to date a 19 year old lets be real the saying " Age doesn't matter" is when the both are fucking legal adult and that would be 20+ years old they should be. This was just me ranting but above this FL is actually 32 years old
Now the Knight dude Kyle he's actually legal adult age so for him to date the FL it's the saying " Age doesn't matter" that actually applies. As for some of u all that is shipping a kid with an adult , you guys are nasty point blank. It seems like u all into grooming kids.