guys does anyone have any bl otome recommendations or yuri otomes. reverse harem (good one...

Reverse harem - Empresses harem
Men of the harem

I have no idea if you meant you're looking for otome games or manga/hwa/huas, but here are some recommendations (these are all GLs):

Stories:
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/genjitsu_sekai_real_demo_shiawase_ni_shite_kudasai_ne/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/gal_maid_villainess_only_milady_s_happy_end_will_win/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/help_because_of_a_bug_i_m_getting_pestered_by_the_game_s_babes/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/please_bully_me_miss_villainess/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/i_m_a_childhood_friend_and_i_want_to_remain_a_supporting_character_but_for_some_reason_i_became_the_heroine_s_love_interest/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/akuyaku_reijou_desu_ga_hiroin_ni_kouryaku_sarete_masu_wa_anthology_comic/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/i_favor_the_villainess/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_villainess_and_the_woman_who_would_do_anything_for_the_sake_of_love/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_magical_revolution_of_the_reincarnated_princess_and_the_genius_young_lady/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/i_m_not_cut_out_to_be_a_princess_so_i_ll_elope_with_the_villainess/ (one-shot)

Games:
Arcade Spirits (PS4, Steam, Switch)
Kindred Spirits on the Roof (Steam)
Starlight Vega (Steam)
Quantum Conscience (Steam)
Seduce Me the Otome (Steam)
SoulSet (Steam)
Magical Diary: Horse Hall (Steam)
England Exchange (PC)
Havenless (Google Play store)

THANK YOU SO MUCH YOU ARE LITERALLY MY SAVIOURS

how long did it take you to list these out?

Not long honestly, maybe 2 minutes? It's not really a lot of recommendations lol.