For everyone who ever decide to write a BL story. Please don't make the seme clean the uk...

I agree on most of what you says. Just because I dont do something, doesnt mean everybody should do the same.

But it is my understanding that a top bathing a sleeping bottom is not a common thing.

Taking a shower together is something else. Im talking in particular of the scenario of the top bathing a sleeping bottom after sex.

Also, from my experience, a bottom wouldn't be exhausted after sex. (Yes sex is exercice... but thats about it energy wise). First of all, I really don't think most men would take the initiative to bath their loved ones in general, thats not something that seems like a common thing to do (except for your children). And if they were to do it, the situations would probably be if its for something who is very sick or someone very drunk that puked on themself or something.

But Im interested, you are saying that your friends just fall asleep from exhaustion after sex and they wake up cleaned from being bathed by their boyfriend ? I am shooked. Where do you live ?

I don't understand why do you always keep asking on "where do you live?"(‘◉⌓◉’)
What does this have to do just anyone's location and country?????? Ain't that a simple aftercare that the partner wanted to do to care for the partner after they did it???༼⁰o⁰；༽

And another thing, it's not only about falling ASLEEP because I have not yet once mentioned anything about sleepingxbathing i only refered Bout being exhausted, tired and lazy. And I will mention it now, yes my friend once told me regarding how one time they both fell asleep but their partner woke up first and decided to just clean them as well as the sheets and fall asleep together again.

And what's wrong with partners cleaning their other partner? Why do you seem so against to it?!!? If it's not common for you doesn't mean it's also not common for others. You can take the example from the replies you got. They all find it common and normal!!!(´⊙ω⊙`)！
And also please understand that every individual's form of AFFECTION is different⁄(⁄ ⁄•⁄-⁄•⁄ ⁄)⁄. Not everyone is same. Just like how you find this uncommon and the others a common things that's just the way it is, there's no further explanation needed for this. (･o･;)
Because it's just you whose trying to deny that such a thing is not commonヽ༼⁰o⁰；༽ノ. Yes for you, but not for others.

And regarding the sickness/puking situation, that's a common thing to do for their partners right?
Just like how you find this situation the common thing to bath/clean their partner that's just how we find it as a common thing to do after doing it.

And also please do stop asking "where do live?" I find it soo weird tbh TT.
It's not about the places, it's just simple common sense for other partners to show their care if they want to. It has nothing to do with the place they live.

Well I asked because it could be a cultural difference, so I was interested to know which country you are from, that's about it.

Where I'm from, there is no taboo to ask where others are from. You make it sound like it's something creepy, sorry if it's a touchy topic for you.


Anyway, i obviously isnt as odd as i thought if you guys have experienced it (first hand or heard about it from others). Now I have to ask my frienss what they think of it xD