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im so pissed when theres a comment says the ml is red flag n this one not a proper bdsm when they only read until ch 7 ╮(￣▽￣)╭
I mean it's still not proper bdsm considering he's an experienced dom with a complete virgin, talking abt only two things before starting and not actually discussing rules and kinks or the implications of doing/not doing smth that can end in serious injuries (ex. the no foreplay) IS very much a red flag
If they were equally unexperienced or at least there wasn't such a big gap in experienced it wouldn't be that bad but he should know better than just pushing his preferences onto a beginner (who 9 out of 10 will just follow whatever their dom says)
I hope this author knows I love themヾ(☆▽☆)
Actual bdsm written correctly? A dom who actually cares for their sub? Control in and out of play? A top with facial hair? A bottom who isn’t a stereotype that easily gets manipulated? UGH I LOVE IT ALL SO MUCH