guys this is completely unrelated to manga but i need a strangers thoughts and opinions on...

nico June 2, 2025 12:39 am

guys this is completely unrelated to manga but i need a strangers thoughts and opinions on this. I've been talking to this guy for about a month now and it's going well so far, it's really slowburn but i don't mind, his birthday is soon (the 15th) and i ended up spending over £200 on his gift, however my friends told me it was stupid to waste that much money on a guy i barely know and i'm gonna regret it because it probably won't last long. I'm not sure though, but yeah i see their point because £200+ is a lot for a 17 year old, but he seems so worth it, AND i've already bought it now..

Responses
    Piña Colada June 2, 2025 12:42 am

    keep it for urself tbh

    nico June 2, 2025 12:44 am
    keep it for urself tbh Piña Colada

    i don't wear silver :(

    Dot June 2, 2025 12:46 am

    I’ve never seen someone use slow burn to describe an irl relationship until now wtf

    Xeny June 2, 2025 12:54 am

    im guessing 200£ is a hell lot of money and for a 17 y/o... i advice you to sell it again... there's a 50/50 chance that you're gonna regret it but it also means you won't sooo, just trust your gut

    root June 2, 2025 12:54 am

    If you think he’s worth it and it’s something that you can afford then I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. I would agree that it’s a lot of money spend on someone you’ve only known for a month, but it’s your choice at the end of the day.

    Haneul June 2, 2025 12:58 am

    Give him nothing at first, like pretend that you got him nothing for his birthday and then wait for his reaction, if he acts up and start behaving like a duche dump his ass and sell the gifts, if he acts like a mature person and doesn’t cause a scene then give him his gifts

    nico June 2, 2025 1:00 am
    im guessing 200£ is a hell lot of money and for a 17 y/o... i advice you to sell it again... there's a 50/50 chance that you're gonna regret it but it also means you won't sooo, just trust your gut Xeny

    it's basically the same as 200 dollars, i'm gonna trust my gut and see how his behaviour is until his birthday

    nico June 2, 2025 1:00 am
    If you think he’s worth it and it’s something that you can afford then I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. I would agree that it’s a lot of money spend on someone you’ve only known for a m... root

    true point, i guess i spent a lot because i'm only used to buying things for girls and not guys, but he seems worth it

    nico June 2, 2025 1:01 am
    Give him nothing at first, like pretend that you got him nothing for his birthday and then wait for his reaction, if he acts up and start behaving like a duche dump his ass and sell the gifts, if he acts like a... Haneul

    thank you!! i will absolutely be doing this

    M&M June 2, 2025 1:53 am
    thank you!! i will absolutely be doing this nico

    If you do that can you update us wanna know what happened ( ̄∇ ̄")

    ukemon June 2, 2025 2:10 am

    why would you do that omg no man is worth that much money at 17

    June 2, 2025 2:35 am

    I did stuff like that at that age and honestly not worth it. I lowk expected them to do the same for me but it doesn’t happen esp if it’s not a defined relationship, it just feels super unbalanced and I felt pretty bad about myself after it ended.

    Maybe you can return it, 200 is a lot for a gift, not only bc you’re young. But yeah up to you yolo

    nico June 2, 2025 10:56 pm
    If you do that can you update us wanna know what happened ( ̄∇ ̄") M&M

    yesss!! i absolutely will update, ill be giving it to him next friday

    nico June 2, 2025 10:58 pm
    I did stuff like that at that age and honestly not worth it. I lowk expected them to do the same for me but it doesn’t happen esp if it’s not a defined relationship, it just feels super unbalanced and I fel...

    honestly its kind of like a gamble, since im unable to return it ive decided to give it to him as its for his birthday and not any other occasion, im kind of nervous because ive never really done this before thats why i spent so much on him on a whim, he doesnt even know i got it for him, but i truly do hope he doesnt expect anything else, i dont expect anything but loyalty.

    nico June 2, 2025 10:58 pm
    why would you do that omg no man is worth that much money at 17 ukemon

    im scared now everyone told me i fucked up by doing this