
Manga have more realistically sized dicks. Although they still suffer from top = bigger. Bottom = smaller. I think this obsession with top being bigger is just how women function in general. BL is written by women for women so there's a lot of catering to the women's fantasy and self-insertion. In the Bara that I've read I noticed both top and bottom characters are usually similar build and similar dick size.

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/ghost_window/
And
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/one_summer_day/
Are exceptions that come to mind but yeah lol
Do you think that manhwa authors are too obssesed with huge massive dicks? Especially when it comes to top characters. Even when the top has a smaller built than the bottom, if his dick is enormous, then you know he is definitely a top. And sometimes it could look too unrealistic bcz it just so massive( T∀T). But the funny thing is at the same time they make the bottom's dick as small as possible, so looking at the size difference can be a bit weird(´∀`;)