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I agree but I just think the complexity of the situation plus their background plus top's obliviousness makes it less offensive than what post people are implying. I've read the comments and most are considering top a red flag for that dialogue but we know he apologized and wasnt doing it on purpose. He learned from his mistake. I'll agree that what he did was not right and there couldn been better ways to go about consoling the coworker but I'll have to disagree with turning him into a bad guy.
guys is it ok if your boyfriend spends the night over to his new coworker to console them and then he tells the sad vulnerable coworker "If I were single, I'd go for you in a heartbeat" but other than that youre silly boyfriend didn't do anything