Mine was normal I just noticed my feelings towards my old girl bsf back in elementary weren't the normal platonic one. I suddenly wanted to spend more time with her, do things for her, and just be with her generally in a not so platonic way. Im glad i grew up to be open minded cuz i feel like i would've wasted half of my life denying my like for the same gender lol.
discovering yaoi made me realize i like men
one day I realized I found girls more attractive and found them more interesting than I did with guys and thought maybe Im lesbian
another day I realized I dont give a fuck if I date a guy or girl so now I am bi
i realized in 12th grade that the admiration i felt for a girl back when i was in 7th grade was actually a big fat crush.
also when i first watched howl's moving castle i was so fucking confused if i wanted someone like howl or if i wanted to be howl to someone's sophie.
and then after that i realised I had a type . to explain the type -> some fictional character of that type : nico Robin, yennefer of vengerberg, miss tao from gokurakugai.
How'd u guys find out u were into the same gender?