
I feel like a lot of yaoi readers (not all obv) like the fictional hot gay men getting together but don’t actually feel strongly about lgbtq+ irl… it’s like kpop fans who ship their same-sex idols together but would actually be disgusted if they came out as gay irl
I don’t think yaoi is woke necessarily bc it’s mostly straight women reading it, or at least that’s who it’s geared toward (I’m not trying to attack you or anything, I just wanted to input my two cents on the topic lol)

I agree with you. And remind to all people that not all the people who is in or supports the LGBTQ+ community is woke. They are entirely different things and yes, yaoi is not originally made for male audience but for women to enjoy or read. I'm not mad to anyone but I just want to make it clear ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~ enjoy reading

I've been reading/watching yaoi/BL for more than a decade now but you know I don't particularly "support" them, or should I say support some of their agendas (like the bathroom thing, and the pronouns). Don't get me wrong, I don't hate them, I respect their human rights, I also have a friend who is gay, but it doesn't mean I will support everything they are doing.

What does that even mean, one flip of the coin you love reading about there sex life but when it comes to bathrooms they want to use (which imo sounds like you are talking about someone being transgender which is an entirely different conversation) and what pronouns they wish to use (which also sounds like you are talking about transgender people) that’s where you cross the line??? If you cared about there human rights then would you not want them to be comfortable at all times cisgender straight people never have to worry about things like that because it comes “naturally” so it’s kind of unfair for you to say that you support them when you don’t you like the idea… and please if you also say shit like I don’t support all of the things they do and then say I have a gay friend it’s like a racist saying I’m not racist I have a black family member who is married to my 10th cousin on my dads side..

So you think letting a man into a women's bathroom is a human right? Like what? Are you sane? This is what's wrong in the woke community, just for you guys to be 'comfortable', other people need to suffer for you? How about the women who doesn't feel 'comfortable' when a man enter their bathroom? We women also have the human right to refuse their ridiculous sh*ts. And being transgender doesn't change who you are biologically. Trans women are still men and transmen are still women. Taking their rights to any bathroom may affect them but no, they are still allowed to use one but it is just right to go where they are supposed to. And don't call straight people cisgender or whatever, we are women and men. And that's something that can never be changed with surgeries. And don't get me started with those ridiculous pronouns woke people just made up and they keep forcing other people to use for their delusions

Holy shit you yap just to yap. How do you think a trans woman who passes as a cis woman feels when they get put into a males bathroom? Dont you think that harbors an uncomfortable environment for them and a potential risk for them to get assaulted or harassed? Why don’t you advocate for bathrooms that are strictly for one person to enter. How about you advocate for the stall walls to be high enough so no one can peak up from above and low enough that no one can crawl under. Better yet, why are we not advocating for the gaps between walls to be fully shut so that no one can see others doing their business. Weird how you’re so open to reading stories about same sex couples but you draw the line at trans people. Your whole transphobic rhetoric is so pathetic to read Jesus Christ. “Boohoo someone asked me to use their respective pronouns

“The woke community” and its people asking you to be respectful of their pronouns and treat them like human beings. Reading Bl whilst saying garbage like this is actually so insane. You’re exactly the type of person to ask why someone is gay and that it’s a shame that they are. Then in the same breath you ask that gay man if they’re a top or a bottom. Drop this piss poor attitude if you’re going to read BL, people like you make the community so ass.

Exactly my point. How about women who are not comfortable with sharing bathroom with them (born as male).
If they're not comfortable in men's bathroom, why not advocate having a cr entirely for them? So biological women will not be uncomfortable. Then everyone will be happy. We cannot sacrifice others comfort just for us to be comfortable.

The only one who has a poor personality here is you.
You can't accept other opinions and take everything defensively.
We just express our feelings/thoughts, were not looking for a fight LOL. You're so childish.
And in case you don't know, if you sacrifice others comfort for your own comfort, you're selfish. That's my logic behind the bathroom and pronoun thing.
One more thing, with regards to that pronouns, I find it funny that you're easily offended just because people were not able to use your preferred pronoun and immediately thought that they are disrespecting you. Are you that shallow? English is not my native language and you're asking me to switch pronouns depending on the people Im talking to? We havent perfected using the language itself and you're making it harder for us to communicate.
Talking these issues made me think that you really like to inconvenience people.

Oh my god here comes the transphobes rallying together and bringing up trans people when they weren’t even involved in the first place. Other people’s opinions and it’s literal transphobia. Be so fucking serious.
You people have the IQ of a rock and the mental capacity of an ostrich. Your logic could literally be used against you, so hey look!! You’re also selfish. Crazy how that works huh. I gave a legitimate solution and you gave…?
Literally what the fuck are you talking about like genuinely. Did the porn rot away your ability to think? Is common sense not so common with you apes?? I find it odd you automatically jumped to conclusions thinking I get upset when people don’t use my preferred pronouns when I never said anything regarding that. I said that it’s odd that you people have a hard time respecting people’s wishes of using their preferred pronouns when asked. This is why reading comprehension skills is important. Don't pick fights if you can’t comprehend basic points.
BYE LMFAO no one brought up languages. If you have a hard time picking up languages and switching between pronouns, no one is going to jump you for it. They will respectfully correct you. Oh my god you people are slow.

Weird how you people will openly read queer stories just to pick and choose which parts of the community you support. “I only support gay men bc I like to watch gay men fuck!! The rest are gross and don’t align with my beliefs” headass. Stick to reading heterosexual stories if your support is only transactional. Weird fucks.
please dont let woke fujoshis ruin this manga