I personally feel like the most fuck up part is what they give you is love for them it's the only love they would be able to give without psychological help and that lack of malice fucking hurt because we're all forever stuck in all the possible what ifs
You’re so real for that they can’t even comprehend that their love can be toxic asf or their views are so misogynistic but will say they love you nonetheless, i felt this way with men and their weird ways of justifying their feelings its not that they’re not aware of it, its the fact that its normal for them to think like that idk how else to describe it but bjorn is a perfect example
"it's not that they’re not aware of it, its the fact that its normal for them to think like that" I'm going to need to take a moment and sit with it
The fact that a lot of men rn are bjorn or has bjorn’s mentality makes me sick, you can’t help but fall for them yet they say they love you in guise of wanting to manipulate that love they receive from you