i dont. she knew that he had some sort of relationship with the fl but didnt care enough to clarify it completely because she wanted him
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wait for the victim blamers to tell you not to feel bad for her because “she should’ve known” when…
a. he introduced haesoo as a relative
b. they’re already divorced
c. ahri did infact break up with him, mincheol was the one who chased after her when he could’ve chose haesoo at that moment.
d. ahri chose to believe the man she loved, and he chose to lie to her just to win her back
e. when you fall in love with someone, you don’t naturally suspect them of shitty behaviour like still living at your ex-wife’s place and incurring millions of debt in her name
DONT FALL FOR THE MISOGYNISTIC PROPAGANDA THAT WEBTOON READERS LIKE TO SPEW
I get feeling bad for her but like THR MOST?? When our female lead destitute, desperate, betrayed and down on her luck is JUST THERE??
I feel bad for the kiddie gf because she's being terribly taken advantage of by an older man. For her body and her money. It's easy to fall into a terrible relationship like she did when the man has so much more experience than you do and love bombs you the way Taeha did.
But she's not poor. She's not struggling to make money. She's spending her father's money on a man she's met... What 2-3 months ago? She's let this man move into her house, let's him dictate her actions, doesn't try to see the reality as it's happening to her by white knighting Taeha...
She's a victim. But she's also at fault for not being cautious of an older man with a shady past. Taeha is a walking disaster waiting to happen to her. And she somewhat knows. And keeps ignoring the hints he sometimes - even deliberately - sends her way. Like stopping her from going to their house in the early days.
Im hoping someway she cuts her losses here and tosses out that asshole. But the way this story is going im afraid she'll headed towards a tragedy... On her way to be a cautionary tale.
I never said shouldve known btw. You're throwing words in my mouth.
And also, dont label me a MISOGYNISTIC just because I don't feel bad. First of all, shes fictional. Second of all, in ch16, she was already doubting him but chose to ignore it. Haesoo is introduced as family, not relative. When haesoo finds out about the cheating in ch.18, she said that they've lived togther for 13 years but the gf simply says whats going on and that shes leaving. The its revealed they were married and then divorced but still living together. You're telling me that i should feel bad for her when the GF literally chooses to be with mincheol EVEN after she finds out his relationship with haesoo. Because clearly in ch. 21 when mincheol tells her everything, she still chooses to be with him. So no, I dont feel bad. She chose to be with him despite knowing the truth afterwards.
She's still 23 the frontal lobe hasn't yet develop fully, I always feel bad for younger women getting with way older men who's toxic. I know these girls are annoying, but they're still young and I do feel bad. And the author, if she really wanted to write realistically, i hope that she get hepl too, not just used as npc to make the "old fl is better bc look at this pathetic bitch young girl" like
Just to let you know cause you seem to be mistaken something
We didn’t tell him/her not to feel bad for the red head’s current gf.
We just expressed our opinions because this is the topic of discussion.
There’s still some level of accountability here because she does know he’s not the best person, she even says so when he came back begging for her. It’s more that she’s being young and reckless with her first time being in-love. Aaand that’s okay! We all go through it and learn! So yes, let’s feel bad but also hold her accountable for knowingly continuing her relationship with him when he obviously isn’t even loving towards her. He’s the worst boyfriend!
i wasn’t addressing you specifically, but i guess a hit dog will holler. someone already argued with me in a different comment abt this and i was just going over main points i already said. i was warning the original commenters that people who hate ahri will jump them and tell them to not feel bad for her, where there really isn’t anything wrong with feeling bad for a woman who’s been manipulated. there’s actually way worse comments and even people who wish abuse on ahri, saying she’d deserve it. i’m not saying you’re one of them, but you could be, idk.
plus, you can still be misogynistic to fictional characters, webtoon readers do it all the time, it’s like a tradition at this point. have you ever read the comments of “remarried empress” perchance?
and the original translation means “relative” so don’t get into logistics with me about the difference between family and relative. they mean the same thing here.
also in that chapter you’re talking about, ahri is clearly distraught and was ready to drink a bunch of alcohol after breaking up with mincheol. read that scene again and listen to how mincheol words things. he guilt trips ahri by putting himself down, making him seem humble and like someone who’s just in an unfortunate, uncontrollable situation. he makes it clear he doesn’t have feelings for haesoo and goes as far as to “promise” to get out of ahri’s life forever, as he points out how young she is and how she can find better. ahri, distraught but still in love with him, sees this as an opportunity to “rescue” him and also prove him wrong. at the end when ahri forgives him, he’s smirking, happy he easily tricked her. her only fault was being genuine and believing in him.
again i wasn’t addressing the replies in THIS thread specifically, i was warning the og commenter that people are gonna jump them for this opinion. and i shared my opinion too, hope this helps
yeah but the reasons people are mad at her for aren’t even about mincheol being a bad bf anymore, they simply hate her because they think she shouldve “known better” when mincheol was the one who built their relationship on lies. do i want her to stand tf up and leave his ass? ofc i do. do i understand that she’s young and reckless but still needs to look out for herself and the people shes affecting, yes but i still feel bad for her.
but here’s some ridiculous reasons people have said why ahri deserve no sympathy in this very comment section and on tiktok:
1. well she’s actually not thaaaat young, she actually should know better! (doesn’t address that an older man let this relationship happen)
2. she should’ve known something with fishy and investigated it herself!
3. she said rude things about haesoo so she deserves karma! (they don’t know each other and this will never affect haesoo)
4. why would she even get involved with a married man? (theyre divorced)
5. she’s ugly (objectively false)
6. haesoo is prettier (why are we pitting women against each other)
bruh atp she's being dumb like on purpose or something. She saw another girl claiming to be his wife but chose to ignore it. Anyone could have sensed there's a red flag.
LMAO i didnt expect so many replies, lemme just say that i honestly think she gets too much hate for no reason when red head literally lied to her about his relationship with fl. are we forgetting how when she first came to know of---okay i cant keep calling him red head, whats his name again---MINCHEOL and haesoo's relationship she was so ready to turn her back on him and leave until he started spewing all ts about haesoo being a toxic partner and how hes in the middle of filing for a divorce/are divorced (pretty sure he said that) and i remember reading allat and thinking, wow if this was anyother manwha where he was the ml and he had a crazy ex partner and she was the fl he seeked refuge in IT WOULD HAVE BEEN A WHOLE OTHER STORY. he would have been perceived as the pitiful ml trapped in a toxic relationship but we know better as the readers. she doesnt, she was lied and manipulated, sure shes naive but thats not exactly to hate her for. shes young and inlove and believed mincheol's intentions were pure
as for THE MOST, im mostly exaggerating. i feel bad for haesoo too ofc. idc for any of the guys, including ml
U GET IT
U GETTT ITTTTT people are like “why isn’t she more suspicious” but she was! she broke up with mincheol once already! the point was that mincheol weaseled his way back into ahri’s heart by guilt tripping and lying to her!!! yes she is dumb and naive but no one deserves to be in a toxic relationship!!
i get why ppl might find her annoying, since shes the young and dumb type and prolly wont be anything else other than just mincheol's side girl in the story. just hope she isnt hurt too much in the end
i do believe ppl are too quick to hate jump female characters in stories that isnt the beloved fl, i mean i saw ppl hating on haesoo's coworker just because she told ml to be careful because, her coworker believed, haesoo already had a husband
preach louder!!!
If you truly don’t mean to offend us, then next time, make sure your comment doesn’t come across as offensive to the previous commenters — and avoid putting words in our mouths that we never said. Hope this helps too.
honestly the one i feel bad for the most is the red head's gf