Lmaoo this reminds me

Its really interesting because I think that if Courtney try something new with Richard maybe we will be able to see Richard in a vulnerable state and Courtney might understand that he may not be into everything and we will probably see then some aftercare scenes

Yep my guess is emotional abuse. Verbal and Physical abuse (all of ot ofc in a respectful way) were fine for him so maybe if she uses for example some real fears of him...

Maybe I’m wrong but from your comment I get the impression you didn’t tell your sub or talk about the play beforehand? So yeah I can understand why that would be scary and he could be worried you left him bc he’d done something, for example
Obviously some people aren’t going to react that way even without knowing prior to the play but BDSM is 1st and foremost about communication and consent, it’s always helpful to talk about thing before doing them it might still end up being awkward or uncomfortable etc but at least uou can work through it together and you’re aware of what you’re getting into before and can fully consent knowing that

yea def sounds like the issue was communication. you have to ask them what they’re into and what they’re definitely NOT into before you try anything, and ofc respect wtv they say. and that goes for outside the bdsm community too, this is smth everyone should do with their partners. always let them know if you wanna try smth new too

Oh my goodness. Well it makes sense if they felt unsafe. As a dom you need to know and be aware of your sub's limits, definitely talk to your sub beforehand. :/

Calm down girls!! Of course we already talked about our limits. And also we already talked about this abandoned play like months ago and he consent and willing to try as long as it's only around the house. But I admit it's my mistake not telling him right before the act and he said he forgotten about the agreement because he got too panicked and sad that I left him. After that I hug him, calm him down told him I'm sorry and give him reward to choose his new toy. The end

Also before someone concludes something again. Yes I asked him if he want to tried this kind of play again sometimes of course with notice right before the act. He said he hate it when he can't feel my presence. He feel vulnerable and unprotected without me there even in his own room in his own house. So yeahh we both learn his new limit that day

I think that you handle well the situation because in this type of case the bond of trust can be broken but its fine to try things and maybe mess up if at the end you take care of things and you repair the mistake. So I wish you a lot of happiness together ^^

Okok. That's good that you spoke about it before. The way you worded it had me worried lol. But yeah, like you said, that kind of play isn't for everyone. I apologize if I came off as blunt. (0^0')