haha to me,
1) if the SW felt really triggered after their first time, he wouldve called his dad to come home faster or maybe avoid AD in some ways. 2) sex CAN feel painful for the first few times. it comes and goes. especially when a person hasnt done it for so long/has never done it before. it takes a while for one to adjust an object being thrusted into them. later in the chapters SW doesnt seem to whine about pain that much anymore (if my memories are correct). 3) i believe that their controlling atittudes are mutual? sure to us its toxic at some point but they dont mind it and it doesnt really affect their relationship negatively, so theres no need to worry about that. 4) true, it mightve been fast-paced for SW to fall in love with AD, but hes so sure about it. if this relationship goes wrong then he'll learn that he was too hasty for a relationship. people irl would break up even when theyve known each other since they were kids. if SW and AD's relationship lasts long, then good for them. 6) its fiction ! letting a guy having an uterus is already nonsense. i believe that some of these are not that big of an issue or maybe im someone who is used to these type of things. anything could happen in fiction stories ! no need to relate them to reality that much hahah
Of course it's fiction lol, but even the illogical needs to be logic in the structure of the fictional world. For example, mpreg happens in omegaverse too, but it's put in a system where it becomes logical according to that world building. Idk if I managed to explain myself, but yeah.
About the sex: of course the author makes SW be okay with the sex even though it was very dub-con. The character will be okay with it because the author decided that way. That doesn't take away from the fact that there was no need, for the author, to depict it that way. The critic is to the author, and way too many other authors, since there really is no need to make the scenes like that. Imo it doesn't even feel like something that Aiden, alway so caring, would do. About the pain: no, sex could cause some discomfort the first times or after a long time, but it should not cause pain if the prep is good. Even here, there was no need to depict SW crying in pain and asking to stop because it's so painful, only to not be listened to. What you do in this situation is stop, listen to your partner, and if you both are willing to continue, maybe focus a bit more on the prep and preliminaries before diving back into it.
About the mutual controlling behavior in the relationship: yep, you're right, both of them have this behavior, but a relationship can be toxic even when it comes from both parts, and not only one partner. That's my opinion at least, you don't have to agree with me. I just find, from experience, that the best and most stable relationships, even with the long distance, are the ones where there is a lot of mutual trust and respect
These are going to be very unpopular opinions but, many things that happen are just dumb imo.
1) Their first time is rapey to say the least, 2) Sex is not supposed to be painful every single time you have it brush, does the author have a fetish for people feeling pain in a non-pleasurable non-consensual way during intercourse? 3) They are way too controlling (just some exemples: friends can't touch you at all, you should not go to parties, etc) 4) They are eternally in love with each other in just literally 2 weeks. I mean, i can accept it for Aiden, but Seowon is meeting him now for the first time and didn't even know he might like men too. 5) Why the is the father so weird about Seowon being sexually active, saying he is too young? He is not a child ffs, he is an adult having sex with another adult his own age. 6) The fact that his lung disease happened because he has a uterus makes ZERO sense. What are we talking about here??? Then all afab people should also have lung disease lmao